we were together for 1year and 2months. but the things he do i know he was gon get caught,im so confused!!!!!
2006-06-23 07:51:37 · 17 answers · asked by playgurl pooh 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Girl, life is short. Don't waste your time on him. And he knew what he was doing. When you do the crime you must do the time. Don't put you life on hold though for his stupidity.
2006-06-23 07:58:54 · answer #1 · answered by loveNromance 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
First of all your boyfriend should have cared enough about his freedom to do the right thing. Apparently he didn't. Now his freedom had been taken away. Now that he is in jail, he'll need emotional support from someone as well as financial support because he'll need money to buy the personal things he needs to survive in jail. Would I stay with him? That's a tough question. If he were my husband, yes, if he was just a casual friend, no, not in a realtionship but I'd be his friend and still get on with my life at the same time. Good luck hun
2006-06-23 15:00:06 · answer #2 · answered by asoldierswife 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first thing you need to understand is that you cannot change this man. He has to do this for himself. If he is going to jail, that is his fault. You need to tell him how you feel about what he is doing. If he won't curb the behaviour, tell him you will leave. End of story. If he does even worse, you get out of there and fast. Don't look back. I hope he has never hurt you, but if he should become physical, GET AWAY. You need a man with responsibility, not a criminal who spends all his time flirting with the law. What kind of relationship will he have with you in prison? Best of luck to you in what ever you decide.
2006-06-23 14:58:18 · answer #3 · answered by thewildeman2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me UN confuse you:
your boyfriend is in jail. He did something stupid. He got caught.
The only regret he has is that he got caught. IF he had NOT gotten caught, would he still be doing it??
If the answer is yes-leave and start a new life with a better man
If the answer is NO WAY-He learned a valuable lesson- i would still leave and find a better man.
You don't need someone who is going to constantly make mistakes to learn his lesson, you need someone who just knows better.
2006-06-23 14:57:22 · answer #4 · answered by Dr. Phil-lys 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is strictly a choice you will have to make but anytime a person goes to jail it is for something stupid. just remember or keep in mind what if the next time your with him and the stupid thing he does to land him in jail lands the both of you in jail. they may get you for accessory. apparently he likes living on the edge and dont really give a dang about his freedom. the both of you don't have to loose ur freedom over something stupid.
also he doesn't seem to respect the time he has with you if he'd rather do stupid things and go to jail. i give u my word i would never leave u alone. i would rather be spending my time with you instead of being in a cell locked up tight with another man. you would be truly more important to me and the only place i want to be locked up is in your embrace or you in mine as we cuddle in front of the television. i bet he want tell you that but i did. i stay in laughlin,nv. if interested let me know. i don't do stupid things.
2006-06-23 15:07:08 · answer #5 · answered by naztman2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The fact that your boyfriend caused himself to get a invitation to jail, I would seriously question my boyfriends character and rather he's even worth an answer.
2006-06-23 14:56:00 · answer #6 · answered by words from the heart 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After he gets out, he'll probably go to jail again someday. You should find someone better.
2006-06-23 14:55:21 · answer #7 · answered by rainfingers 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU KNEW, and you didnt turn him in...
This makes you an "accessory before the fact", and your just as guilty as he is, and you should be in the next cell block...
Be lucky he didnt rat on you, and you dont have to do time...
I wish you well..
Jesse
2006-06-23 14:55:08 · answer #8 · answered by x 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he is getting busted for breaking the law , you need to stay away from him. He could get you involved and you wont even realize it until it is too late.
2006-06-23 14:55:37 · answer #9 · answered by SweetPiper 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sure can pick em....don't worry about it though....there are plenty of criminals left to date out there. My bet says you'll pick another loser shortly....once a loser picker always a loser picker...good luck with that.
2006-06-23 14:56:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋