I have been married for 15 years, I married at a very young age. Not until now am i really enjoying our sex life and thats maybe my fault. But i enjoy watching porn with my husband and the toys that he has come home with (all new). But lately, and maybe because of the porn. I have been thinking about sex with another women or even a younger guy. I think about going into a bar and picking the person out and just taking them back and doing what I want with them. I have NEVER thought about this in my life and feel weird about it, has anyone felt like this before and what did you do??
2006-06-23 07:46:44 · 11 answers · asked by misscanada_y2k 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
YES!! But I didn't realize there were others out there like me!
2006-06-23 07:52:29 · answer #1 · answered by TheGuru 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the porn getting the best of your hormones and got you wanting
more in your sex life, maybe you need to give up the porn because your looking for more problems and maybe a divorce.
Porn when watched together is suppose to be a enhancement or a form of foreplay for you and your husband. Now if your starting to want sex with others from bars or wherever your porn has turned into a problem.
I guess watching others have sex for excitement can solve one
problem while creating another for a couple.
2006-06-23 08:19:57 · answer #2 · answered by words from the heart 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's happening is that you're enjoying the porn, and you feel the way you do because it's fantasy. You're watching people meet for the first time say "hello", "hello", "let's get naked" Yeah, it's hot. Fantasy always seems exciting......but keep it a fantasy. Try some role playing in the bedroom. Keep it real.
2006-06-23 07:57:29 · answer #3 · answered by hellomyfriend 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a grip, honey, you are about to destroy a really nice marriage. Everyone fantasizes but to actually do that, whoa......... Get a grip.. AIDS is out there, along with all the other STD's. Wanna bring that stuff home? And what kind of a partner do you expect to find in a bar, for christ's sake????
2006-06-23 07:54:12 · answer #4 · answered by ladyren 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't beat yourself up over this. Fantasy is normal and healthy. The porn certainly seems to be adding some spice to your fantasy but that's ok. You are at your sexual prime right now, and you should be enjoying it. If you aren't acting on these urges there's nothing to worry about.
2006-06-26 07:02:05 · answer #5 · answered by yetty 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are just getting overly excited with the porno's which is natural, but I would just tell my husband how they make me feel in a way that doesnt make him feel threatened. Who knows he might feel the same way, then instead of both of you cheating and risking ruining your marriage maybe you guys could come up with a sort of agreement that pleases you both, like a threesome or something...
2006-06-23 08:08:05 · answer #6 · answered by sexyhester0603 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yup, had some thoughts but would not include picking up some random person in a bar. Stick with your friends.
2006-06-23 07:56:53 · answer #7 · answered by Shebaby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I might have had similar thoughts when I was younger but the older I got the more I realized monogamy & not contracting STDs meant even more. Good Luck :-)
2006-06-23 07:53:41 · answer #8 · answered by Karen 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not really ummm stop watching porn and any guy u wanna have sex wit pretend its a shark or big foot so that way u dont wanna do it anymore
2006-06-23 07:50:07 · answer #9 · answered by I want to believe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are looking to expand your sexuality that is natural.
I am sure that if you asked your husband to have a threesome with another girl he would be ok with it...
2006-06-23 07:58:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋