i am sO disgusted! i DON't THiNK I EVER WANT TO HAVE KIDS! EVER! and it was SO NASTY when the nurse "CUT EXTRA ROOM" EWWww!!
i'm 19...so yeah i'm a little immature ...but how can some people say that's a beautiful tHINg?????? and they cause SO MANY more problems after birth like being ungreatful and unappreciative for everything you've done for them!
2006-06-23 07:38:43 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
i went to YouTube and searched for Child Birth
so i really brought it upon myself..: ( lol!
2006-06-23 07:48:48 · update #1
but my hang up is ...KiDS can be sO DiFFiCULT and SO UNAPPRECiATiVE!!!
2006-06-23 07:55:19 · update #2
"SO MANY more problems after birth like being ungreatful [sic] and unappreciative..." Like you, you mean? :)
Yes, you are young. I can tell you from experience though (my experience, anyway) if you do have an episiotomy (which is becoming less and less common, by the way), you won't see it and you won't feel it. You'll be concentrating on pushing your baby out.
Watching some complete stranger give birth would probably make many people sick, unless you're pregnant and taking a child birth class at your local hospital. In that case, since you're a hormonal wreck, you'll probably think it's the sweetest thing you've ever seen, and cry when the baby is delivered. :) It's so totally different when it's YOUR baby that's being pushed out, and you're watching. It's impossible to explain to someone who doesn't have children.
2006-06-23 08:05:34 · answer #1 · answered by brevejunkie 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, it's beautiful in the having a child and loving them aspect, but not so pretty when you see it. You won't see much of it from where you will be when giving birth.
Umm..........you have to teach children to be appreciative, they don't come out like that. If they did then this would be a much better world. They really don't cause problems if you're ready for them and want them. The only time they would cause "problems" would be when a person isn't ready and that's only because the person is resentful of the child. You'll grow up one day and see it from the other perspective.
2006-06-23 08:32:02 · answer #2 · answered by guineasomelove 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I saw one when I was a teenager and it grossed me out. It made me glad I was a guy. I didn't want to get a girl pregnant because I didn't want someone to go through that much pain for the brief pleasure I would get from sex.
It's a good thing I got over it. I have four kids. The first one they had to make the cut. The others came out much easier.
Maybe in a few more years the maternal instinct will take over and you'll decide it's worth it.
2006-06-23 07:51:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not about the way it looks. its about the emotional of a beautiful child being brought into the world. usually when someone who says that is was a beautiful experience, they are generally speaking of the emotion it feels when you give birth. and cut more room, you need to know the physics of all of it, its called an episiotomy, more room for the baby to come through. i am a mother and it is a beautiful experience. thank you!
2006-06-23 07:48:06 · answer #4 · answered by phairee004 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Child birth is a beautiful thing and you will see what everyone is talking about when you have children of your own. Don't let the image of child birth ruin your dreams of children some day! I had a midwife with both of my deliveries, and they don't "make more room" as you call it, they just let it naturally rip on it's own.
2006-06-23 07:44:42 · answer #5 · answered by mama_of_2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea they do at that, and with my two kids, I wouldnt give them up for the World!!
My wife, was happy to have them also!
Once you hold the little bundle of joy in your arms, and see that smiling face, its all worth it!!
The pain only last a little bit, but the love that the kids bring is worth a life time of memories...
I wish you well..
Jesse
2006-06-23 07:48:23 · answer #6 · answered by x 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yup, facts of life are gruesome.
You'd have to experience the up side to get it.
It isn't worth it unless you're in a committed marriage because raising that child is nothing less than a ton of hard work.
Just remember. . .insert male. . .out comes baby.
2006-06-23 07:42:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lmao they made me watch the child bearing movie when I found out I was pregnant. I threw up. It's not pretty.... I don't care how many drugs they give you to numb the pain. lol I happens though.
2006-06-23 08:27:55 · answer #8 · answered by Kota 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cut extra room huh, well they better but a few extra husband stiches in there, lol
and what i think that when people say that it is a beauitful thing, is actually the fact of giving birth, not the process
2006-06-23 07:44:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats probably was what your mom thought of you, but hey your still here right?..lol....yep childbirth is no fun but its still a blessing, but hey if you ever do want kids and u dont want them from your own body you can always ADOPT...
and if you think that way..then let me get a little technical..sex is just as nasty too..all those body secretions and fluids getting on and in you, and then it get sticky etc....but its still enjoyable.....lol....
2006-06-23 10:19:01 · answer #10 · answered by outspokenone 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋