i am curious as to why it is that i have found that a black guy will be with a big white woman or black woman before a white guy will.. does this mean that black men are more of a man than white guys, or that they actually look at what is important in a person being the inside because they know how badly they have been treated in the past just because they were black.. let me know what you all think please.
2006-06-23 07:31:41 · 14 answers · asked by cheryl m 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
No self-respecting white man would be caught dead with a big ol woman. Black men will take whatever they can get.
2006-06-23 07:47:21 · answer #1 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think it's just an -eye-of-the-beholder situation. I am a white overweight woman and I dated a black man for a while. He had dated larger white women before me. (And at the same time as me, but that's another story.)
I think it's just what they are attracted to and how they are raised. There may be something to your theory that they just look past the outside more than white men do.
2006-06-23 07:36:31 · answer #2 · answered by jenniferaboston 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Apparently in Africa when a woman is 'big' she is from a wealthy family that can afford to feed her. I believe in other tropical countries a big woman is considered far more attractive than one that looks like skin and bones. But one thing I do notice about fat women,they are always cheerful and full of laughter whether they are black or white.
2006-06-23 07:38:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
They are not more of a man it is that a lot of black men just want to have a white girl and fat women can't get a good white man so they settle for second best.
2006-06-23 07:38:07 · answer #4 · answered by irishlad 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Black men typically like big women.
2006-06-23 07:35:36 · answer #5 · answered by Joe K 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
They dont. possibly greater black adult men like women those with huge butts, i'm white and my g/f has a great butt, i think of it rather is purely a black adult men selection, I recommend who might want a skinny hipped white woman in any case?
2016-10-31 08:54:26 · answer #6 · answered by winstanley 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
being more than a man , it is actually the opposite , they try to find someone that works and pays all the bills , what is a fat girl going to do , absolutly nothing , once in their life they are getting some attention , bottom line is you can walk all over them and they won't do anything because they know there is no other option .. just speaking the truth , don't get offended
2006-06-23 07:36:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
black guys love thickness and plushiness...white guys tend to love model chicks...some do play on the fact that you may be insecure about your weight so you may feel lucky to have them...
2006-06-23 07:35:09 · answer #8 · answered by SJ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
They want someone that can handle what they are giving out, skinny woman can't do that!
2006-06-23 07:41:49 · answer #9 · answered by nana69 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
more cushin for the pushin!! black guyz got alot down there n they need someone who can handle it lol
2006-06-23 07:34:44 · answer #10 · answered by diamondprincezz456 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋