I can't get over him.......?

Question

A few months back i went out wiv a boy we were getting on great then he dump me......since then i can't get him out me mind is the any tips how 2 get over him coz he sem to try to stay out me way

Answer 1

Try and find another!

Answer 2

Hi,

I completely disagree with everyone here who tells you to go and find a new guy. WHY? Because if a new guy is what it takes to get over the old one, then it's not that specific individual you were so keen on. It was having a guy, any guy. And that's alarming. It means you're possibly 'addicted' to having a relationship, that it's more important for you to have someone, anyone, than to find the one who is your life partner.

If you really loved him then you're not able to even think about having someone else. And the same goes for him, too. If a new guy will be able take your thoughts away from the old guy, then maybe he didn't mean as much to you as you thought?

We all want to feel loved and accepted, and too often we look for a relationship to give us this feeling. But any relationship is just a substitute for a real confidence and self love that comes from somewhere else. I believe it comes only from knowing really who you are and what's your purpose on this planet, and I strongly believe only Jesus Christ can reveal this to each of us.

I suggest you look deep into your fellings for this guy, and be honest with yourself. What do you really feel for him?

Also, since he broke up with you, he's not worthy of you. You are a beautiful woman of infinite value, and any man wanting to be with you should treat you like a queen. Anything less is just not enough, is it? We women want to be treated well, and being dumped is not exactly that, is it?

From my own experience I can tell you that getting over a relationhip starts from making a decision to get over it. You might not feel very good about it at first, at it sure will be difficult, but if you decide that you will get over it, and tell this to you every time you start thinking about him, at some point you will notice that you think of him less and less, and eventually you won't even remember his name :)

All the best,
RachelK

Answer 3

Go to dinner with an friend then go to the club hit on a couple of hotties and go home alone !!! This is an instant self booster after being dumped. oh don`t forget to get at least one name and number so you can move on to the next guy that wants to see you happy and not sad !

Answer 4

I know this may seem like a bad idea but you could ask him WHY he dumped you. At least this way it will give you closure and help you to move on.
Or just focus on doing other things.
And find a new, much hotter guy. That always helps! There will always be someone better out there :)

Answer 5

get this in your mind. NEVER BOGGLE YOURSELF CRAZY OVER A BOY WHO ISNT WORTH IT maybe you still like him, thats normal, but to get him out of you, try this. you can do this alone or with a friend or something. say evrything bad about him, and what bad he has done to u. tell yourself that you hate him because he has treated you this way. once you get into a rage of hating him so bad, he shud be out of you. but then you might start feeling revenge. go oover and slap him at least, then you can do more sweet revenge if you want. i hope this works for you good luck!

Answer 6

Just stay out of his way and go with the flow.

Answer 7

Have a lot of new experiences. That will help replace the memories of him.

Answer 8

Meet someone else...... get a part time job.. get a hobbie.... just keep yourself busy and if you caught yourself thinking about him- change your thoughts to something else.

Answer 9

Nutthin but time.......im stil waitin thought (since a yr)

Answer 10

the best way to get OVER and OLD crush is to get UNDER a NEW one.........think about it...:)