We both agreed in the beginning of the relationship that we were'nt gonna get serious and we will just have fun(him nor i wanted a relationship)However in the process i got attached ..really attached, attachment i was'nt prepared for.Within that seven months all we did was sleepovers,dinners,movies,vacation,sight seeing....everything like real couples do.Anyway after we broke up we both decided to be friends...i actually ended the relationship because i thought i was getting 2 attached and he was'nt and i was being appreciated.After doing so i regretted it and wanted him back but could'nt.So now we are friends, but it's difficult seeing him in person.I feel like i have a stomach ache and like my heart is being ripped from my body and i get evry emotional.I called him a day ago and told him it's hard for me to see him in person and maybe we should wait a while so i can get over this whole thing.he said what is there to get over.what should i do?continue to be friends or not.
2006-06-23 07:10:14 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
but i don't wanna lose him..he's a great guy and cares alot abt my well being.....how do i be his friend and make him see i don't wanna lose him and i know he dosen't wanna lose me either.
2006-06-23 07:11:02 · update #1
you need to get out with your other friends.you like him more than he likes you.Ive been in same situation.i stopped seeing him as much.i wasn't around when he called.he started chasing me.don't be to available.still be his friend but on your terms.if he really likes you then hell keep chasing you.if he doesn't he wont.if you start seeing someone else.that sometimes helps to. hope this helps.
2006-06-23 07:36:12 · answer #1 · answered by fantasia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is it with people who think they can break up with somebody that they really love and be JUST FRIENDS!! It can't be done!!! Give yourself some time away from him and eventually you can become friends but right now Just forget about it.....If it was meant to be just friends, over a period of healing time you two will become friends again. Or maybe not! Roll of the dice..
2006-06-23 07:27:38 · answer #2 · answered by gernblanston 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cant be friends with him, you love him. You will never be happy with any other type of relationship with him. As far as making him realize it, well the best way is to stop talking and seeing him. Not seeing you will make him realize it if there is anything for him to realize. Truth is if he doesn't feel it he doesn't feel it. Nothing you can do about it.
2006-06-23 07:16:37 · answer #3 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make him feel comfortable with u and express ur luv to him if he really loves u then he would surely continue the relationship. All the Best
2006-06-23 07:15:04 · answer #4 · answered by greatbuddy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I completely understand where your coming from. I think you should end the friendship since you can't see him with other females. Or why don't you find yourself another man too get your mind off him!
2006-06-23 07:25:19 · answer #5 · answered by nana69 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not be friends, it will not work. Move on. You will have another guy and he will be sad, and you will laugh.
2006-06-23 07:16:02 · answer #6 · answered by ndmac 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him some good oral and he'll come back . It worked on me.
2006-06-23 07:20:37 · answer #7 · answered by irishlad 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well make up ur mind what you wanna do
2006-06-23 07:12:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him how u really feel
2006-06-23 07:12:57 · answer #9 · answered by veryberry 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋