lately, its all my bf can talk about. Im only 15 and Im not ready.
2006-06-23 07:07:33 · 24 answers · asked by ????? 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
Why aren't girls more obsessed with it?
2006-06-23 07:10:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
testosterone. Don't let him pressure you because if you do it out of pressure you will in the end regret it. I think your boyfriend is talking about it so much with you in hopes that you will give in. Only have sex when you are ready. And only have sex when you are old enough to be able to deal with the consequences of sex, like a baby. I would hate to see a 15 year old get pregnant. My advice is to talk to him about all of this. Explain that you aren't ready and remind him that neither of you are ready to have a baby yet, so play it safe. I think that if he thinks about the whole getting you pregnant thing he might back off. But if he keeps on pressuring you then he is not worth being around because he doesn't care about you.
2006-06-23 14:18:08 · answer #2 · answered by Mike and Gina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old is your bf? If he's your age, it's easy to see why, lol!
If you're not ready... come clean with him & be honest, stay firm and lay down the ground rules.
And after all that he can't deal with it, it's his loss. Guys usually associate sex with love, while girls seek emotional fulfillment. Don't do anything that makes you feel forced/ uncomfortable.
You're only 15 & a whole life ahead of you.
Hope this helps.
2006-06-23 14:19:57 · answer #3 · answered by ViRg() 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because boys reach their sexual peak earlier then women. If you talk with women around 35-40 they are more obsessed as well. Once you are ready then you will realize there is nothing wrong with talking about it. At least he is talking about it with you. You should remain honest and open if you are not ready. If he is forcing you however or making you feel uncomfortable you need to let him know to back off a little.
2006-06-23 14:12:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, if you are only 15 then you should wait, don't let ANYONE pressure you! I let someone pressure me, and I regret it! I don't even talk to that guy anymore. Your first time should be special! It IS something you will ALWAYS remember! As for your question, I think that it is because society put a steriotype on guys, saying that they think about sex so much, now guys think that that is the way they are suppose to be. On the other hand, I think that girls think about it just as often as guys, but they are steriotyped too, so they act like they don't.
2006-06-23 14:14:48 · answer #5 · answered by stangwoman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all men are the same. I have always felt that sex should be the result of a cultivated relationship and not the means of establishing a relationship. You are only 15 so take your time and meet lots of people and enjoy your teenage years as there is plenty of time to formulate a serious relationship later in life.
2006-06-23 14:13:35 · answer #6 · answered by mandbturner3699 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are asking the wrong question. Maybe you would like to know why your boyfriend is obsessed with it. Because not "all" guys can be obsessed with it.
Your boyfriend is probably feels like he needs to experience sexual intercourse. If you are not ready, that is fine. Your time has not come yet. You should tell him how you feel about that. And if he respects you and loves you, he will listen to you.
2006-06-23 14:32:43 · answer #7 · answered by davito53000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sex is natural....but that is until you are grown up....nonetheless now days...most young people like your boyfriend thinks that is good and great to have sex with the person you are going out with...but is a personal decision if you want to have sex or not...I suggest that you keep your virginity....until you get married and find the right mate that is going to be with you for the rest of your life....that is if you consider the marriage as a compromise...if you don't then....you can think of a divorce or a separation...between your mate...but that's another thing that will come in time....for now try to keep knowing your boyfriend more...check his attitute toward others, the way he behaves...his skills for work...his responsabilities....and more....and so for now have a nice day and a wonderful relationship with your boyfriend...
2006-06-23 14:18:38 · answer #8 · answered by israelmoya20 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys only think of the cookie...nothing else at that age... if you're not ready, then you're not ready for him...guys will use every line in the book and even up to the point of making you wanted it, demand it and then be the "responsible" party. if you're not ready for it, then you're not ready for him...leave him and get with someone of the same mind frame about it. he doesn't have to carry a baby, he doesn't have to go through the pain of being a girl and you don't have to put up with that.... are you with him because he's good looking? rich? what? ask yourself the important questions and don't be scared to be truthful to yourself about who you are.
2006-06-23 14:14:27 · answer #9 · answered by Tu Papi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you're not ready, let him know. To guys sex is important in a different way then it is to women. To them it's just the feeling of satisfaction that makes them happy. To us girls, it's more emotional. It will be that way forever. Even in marriage. Don't do it if you're not ready.
2006-06-23 14:11:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it until your ready girl. Who cares why they are obsessed. The fact that they are should make you cautious.
2006-06-23 14:12:47 · answer #11 · answered by Babyred 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋