men see what they want and go for it while women like to spend time choosing? WHY????
2006-06-23 06:52:52 · 32 answers · asked by Weapon X 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
That sounds like a cliche. You haven't met many women, have you?
2006-06-23 06:54:37 · answer #1 · answered by vanamont7 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is actually nothing to joke about, it is a well known medical flaw in the female brain (I do of course use the term 'brain' very loosely)
I have long since stopped shopping with my wife!!
Imagine this, a large outdoor open market place, she wanted potatoes, there must have been 10 stalls selling veg, all within a few pennies in cost, you would think it easy to pick up a bag of potatoes pay your money and away, job done! No chance every stall had to be examined every spud had to be picked up and squashed until it screamed !!
If it was just potatoes I could probably get to grips with that but the same applies to every thing she wants to buy!! I could fill a couple of pages about her choosing a dress, but I think you get the picture?
I can go into a supermarket buy whatever and out all in minutes. But as I say they are really to be pitied I don't think they have the brain capacity to cope with the stress!! That includes driving of course, just imagine the chaos whirling around in their heads as they drive, it doesn't bear thinking about!!
And if my wife is reading this, I'm only joking dear!
2006-06-23 07:15:10 · answer #2 · answered by budding author 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because men introduced the concept of logical thinking while women choose the more natural emotion-driven thinking - thus appearing indecisive to the framework of decision-making introduced by men.
2006-06-23 06:57:27 · answer #3 · answered by Son of Gap 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is it that we are indecisive or is that men are impulsive?? When my boyfriend goes shopping he hates trying on clothes. So he just buys a whole bunch of clothes at once. When he gets ready to wear them and they dont fit he puts it in a pile to take back.. Taking up twice as much time as it would have taken if he were to just have tried them on in the store.
2006-06-23 07:24:40 · answer #4 · answered by Toccy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I could argue the opposite. Women usually get on with all sorts of things whilst men often need to have a cup of tea and think about it forst. But, everyone is different, so there will always be exceptions to any theory or rule
2006-06-23 06:54:39 · answer #5 · answered by welsh_witch_sally 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If we knew the answer to this one it would solve so many relationship problems, why do women find the outfit they want, look at 50 others all over town and then go back to the first one they found 3 hours ago.
2006-06-23 07:54:33 · answer #6 · answered by Owen Money 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Really, in all honesty, it is that we think it over too much, but not for any of the reasons we say like, "consequence" or "analytical" blah, blah, blah. The reason is because we are worried about what you will think of our decision, and don't want to F*ck it up. Yes, even after marriage. Yes, even after ump-teen years or whatever. And yes even amongst other women. We are emotional creatures and we (unfortunately) care about what someone else thinks, a little too much.
2006-06-23 13:31:58 · answer #7 · answered by sarozsi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because women who see what they want and go for it are seen as unfeminine whores. They aren't allowed to be go-getters. Men are allowed to want what they can't have while women can't. In other words, men can have wants, needs, and desires while women cannot.
2014-07-29 15:58:27 · answer #8 · answered by That Wife 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We've always been too analytical in everything else anyway, so when it comes down to decisions, we weigh it out on the pros & the cons first before making our final decision.
I think that we tend to put ourselves last in the list of priorities; everything else comes first.
Also, I wish us women will just stop being so hard on ourselves & just enjoy the moment something men know very well on, lol.
2006-06-23 07:06:30 · answer #9 · answered by ViRg() 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
simple - because men don't care as long as the "end result" is the same, and women want the best and will use their brain and not Machismo to get things.
Same reason men are more likely to cheat...they want sex they don't care who - Women want sex too but with someone of quality not some random ***!
2006-06-23 08:44:07 · answer #10 · answered by lucy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey we want to get the very best, so we take our time. You don't just grab the first thing you see, I mean, come on! Plus, it's fun to look around at nice things even if you can't get them right then. When I want to get something, I look around and find the best that I can before I get it.
2006-06-23 06:56:55 · answer #11 · answered by Jenn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋