Why is it good for your man to look at other women?

Answer 1

I don't necessarily think it's good but I don't think it is bad either. I think it is just natural and cant be helped. my husband look all the time, I don't care because he is with me. now my friends B/F looks and she flips out on him, I don't know I think that's just stupid and immature.

Answer 2

I believe for a man in a serious relationship to notice other women is normal, but if it's more than a glance then it is not OK. If a man is looking at another woman longer than just a glance he is not thinking how classy her haircut looks, or wondering where she bought her shoes. He is thinking the same things that he thought when he ogled you... 'Wow, I'd like to get into that' and things of that nature, unless of course he's gay but then he wouldn't be with a female anyway. I'm sure that everyone, once in awhile, looks at someone of the opposite sex who is hot and thinks 'Wouldn't it be nice....' but if it happens too often then it only leads to straying.

Answer 3

It's good for a number of reasons.
First off, while it's normal for him to ignore other women for the first couple of months of a relationship eventually it will wear off. If you're all he can think about and so forth then I'd be a little disturbed, it could mean he is obsessed and that's not a healthy state of mind.
Second, if he didn't look at other girls you would get stale to him. By looking he's keeping you fresh, which helps you remain attractive to him because eventually a girlfriend or wife tends to become a little blah. You get used to it and like seeing other things. That doesn't mean he wants her over you or anything like that because once he does look at you he realizes what he has and it refreshes his memory of why he is with you.
When he is looking he's probably thinking things like I wonder what she looks like naked, or is infatuated with a certain part of her body, which isn't a threat to you. It's only if he decides he wants to see her naked that you should be concerned because that's a sign that you obviously don't mean all that much to him.

Answer 4

It's not good, but I don't always take it offensively when my man checks out other women becuase they are beautiful and I can't help but look at them too. Women are very beautifuI creatures! I know he married me, is in bed with me every night and I have nothing to worry about. But then again, there are times when I get upset when he is looking at ohter women. So I'm a bit wishy washy when it comes to that. Men really aren't supposed to look at other women, but sometimes I don't really mind.

Answer 5

there are beautiful people everywhere that are pleasing to look at. i think, especially with women, there is a misconception that someone else being beautiful takes away from you being beautiful. not possible. i think it's human nature to look. i don't think everyone feels this way, but i personally enjoy looking as well and i'm turned on by my hubby looking.

good question!

Answer 6

Is it? I mean, who told you that?... could it be "your" man?
As far as I'm concerned, if you are in a committed relationship, there should be no reason for your or his eyes to wander! To me, that's disrespectful... and can easily lead to much more, very quickly!

Answer 7

exactly the same reason why it's good for me to look at another man.

Answer 8

Its OK to look....but that's all ; )

And if you are keeping him happy.....that's all he'll do is
look ; )

For some reason men see attractive gals they have to look....its like seeing a car Wreck or something....they just have too

Answer 9

To show that he's alive and has a mind of his own...or that he can appreciate beauty? I think it makes you think twice about being a b*tch to him and walking all over him because of the threat that he'll leave you.

Answer 10

it is not always good if a man like me accompaby u.. try it