2006-06-23 06:23:56 · 33 answers · asked by snickers 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
No, I live with a very tender loving husband and four beautiful kids. The last time my heart was broken is when my youngest brother was killed four years ago. Otherwise I have been pretty happy. I have really been blessed. Good luck to you hun
2006-06-23 06:28:01 · answer #1 · answered by asoldierswife 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not a simply way to live with a broken heart. You have to face it for a while. Don't let that person be around you at all. If you do then you will never be over it. Think of everything bad that happen between you and that person. Slowly but sure you will start to get over them. Try finding a good friend to help you get your mind off of it.
2006-06-23 06:30:13 · answer #2 · answered by TaQuia 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Snickers,
Girl, i know that it hurts. Is there anything that you can do to "fix it"? Usually not, as the other person has made a decision that they wont be swayed from. In my experience, it is best to try and move forward into the future, no matter how uncertain or hopeless that it seems, and not be stuck in the past. Do things that you enjoy doing, like exercising, painting, whatever it is that you like and you will start to feel better. This will take some time, generally half of the time that you and your love were together; Im still getting throught this; after seven years together, I am almost to year 3 apart and feeling better every day. Does this make sense? Hope so. Good luck to you.
2006-06-23 06:32:24 · answer #3 · answered by Simplystunning 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One day at a time, one step at a time. I remember being in that place of hardly being able to breathe my heart hurt so much. I couldn't stop crying, couldn't stop thinking about this person, couldn't eat, couldn't sleep. Then I went through all the stages after the grief of the broken relationship - anger, demonizing the other person, dating anyone who paid attention, finding "love" on the rebound (which of course didn't work out), to finally, literally waking up one day almost a year later feeling great and realizing that hurt in my heart and the rock in the pit of my stomach was gone. I was singing along with the radio and the song playing had the lyrics, "I really don't need YOUR light to see me through..."
You will get over it and it happens in its own good time.
2006-06-23 06:29:01 · answer #4 · answered by nquizzitiv 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well when my fiancee died in a car crash it took some time to get my head straight, but there were certain things I did that helped and others that didn't:
Hurtful:
1. Immersing yourself in something negative such as alcohol or another distraction....only gives you temporary relief as well as the so-called "courage" to hurt yourself...maybe permanently.
2. Turning down invitations to be with friends and family because I figured I couldn't face them or didn't want to answer questions.
Helpful:
1. Immersed myself in positive things - my favourite hobby which is creating music, as well as re-focused my energy on my job. The pain seemed less and less every day when I was distracted by doing something creative.
2. While everyone needs some time alone to get their thoughts together, hanging out with friends and family in a relaxed atmosphere as often as possible (barbecues, watching football games) where you can share a laugh or two helps you keep your perspective.
And what is the perspective you gain from going through a heartbreak or in my case a heartbreaking death? An understanding that life is all about transitions and the only thing we can't recover from is death.
Hang in there. Hope you WORK at improving your situation.
2006-06-23 06:39:27 · answer #5 · answered by vincy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just do. But there are way to heal a broken heart by doings that are fun to you. Don't molp around just cause some fool hurt you. Let them know that you are fine and that you can do it with or without them. You are a strong person, no matter what anybody says.
2006-06-23 06:28:29 · answer #6 · answered by dlbaca7 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U should never get your heart broken that is stupid to do but when you do it u have to go out of the place or think something else or do something else if you have a very good friend share everything with him or her and your burdens will come down .
2006-06-23 06:27:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am living with a broken heart and girl i tell u it is not easy especially if u really liked that person. just try to think about positive things and believe that one day that special someone will come and wipe away all ur tears and pain.
2006-06-23 06:28:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to hear about your broken heart - it will be very difficult but you'll get through it by keeping busy, spend time with good friends, go pamper yourself for a full body massage, force yourself and get that great out fit on and go dancing.
2006-06-23 06:27:56 · answer #9 · answered by Leila 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the only way 2 get ova ur broken heart is to fall in love again...it the truth trust me..in time u will move on n ur heart will mend...
2006-06-23 06:28:34 · answer #10 · answered by madly in love 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋