Can too much PDA bother people?

Question

Most of the time when me and my bf are together we kiss a lot. not like making out or any thing but kissing. and i think it might bother some people. but it hink the only reason why we might be like this is cause we dont really get to have alone time since my mom doesnt trust me n stuff. So i was just wondering does watching couples kiss alot actually bother people?

Answer 1

Sharing a kiss and a hug is no big deal. If you're feeling each other up for a minute or two and kissing and hugging every few minutes or whatever...look, if you don't have a place to hang out with and share some private time, then you need to move out of where you're at and find your own space to do whatever it is you wish. PDA's are fine when kept to a minimum. Some people just don't know when to stop and it can get ridiculous. A minute to one person is actually five minutes to someone else.

Answer 2

well, i do that too- i know some people might be bothered by it.

personally, PDA is a thing you need to talk about w/ ur b/f- if he thinks it bothers other people, then you might wanna find a place that you can be together but not out in the middle of a large croud. The movies or a skating rink are good ideas.

I don't care what others think of my PDA cuz i hug and kiss everyone so yeah.... If it's bothering you that it's bothering others thencut back a little.

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Answer 3

if you think you might be bothering someone with your kissing in public, you probably are. i know i can't take my kids to the mall during the summer and on the weekends because there are way too many high school age kids hanging out there, hiding from their parents so they can grope all over their bf or gf. it's fine if you give each other a little kiss here or there, but constantly kissing each other is going to make others around you uncomfortable. maybe even your friends. i would say that you are better off just holding hands until you know that you are alone. and especially when there are kids around.

Answer 4

It does make others uncomfortable to have to watch people hanging all over each other and kissing all the time. If you want to hold hands or walk arm in arm, that's ok. A quick peck on the lips or cheek is ok. Sucking face in public is not. Have you ever heard, "Get a room!"

Answer 5

actually it will for those who are broken apart and those who for some reason are really lonely. the ones who are in love are constantly looking for reminders of whether their partner loves them and sometimes aloow jealousy decide. if they look at a couple utilizing pda, they are happy, if they look to long, they get jealous and wonder does their partner love them still, thus you get the evening phone calls of do you still love me... for no reason! Then alternatively, theres the ones who are broken apart who really are trying to hide it with a smile, but you remind them of thier loss and it hurts them so bad. Your looking for a way to be gallant about it, so whatever you do, wait till the others have walked far enough by, then go all out.

Answer 6

it can, if done in excessive amounts. try to find somewhere that is kind of hidden from peoples view. this way you can avoid comments like "get a room" or fake coughs or unappreciative looks. i think that your feelings for each other should be kept mostly between you two.

Answer 7

kissing..no, but when people attempt to swallow eachother, it is disturbing b/c there are people who aren't ready to give their kids a sex talk at the age of 8 when they see that all around them... and if it was happening in front of my kids..you kids would get a slap in the back of the head