OK> here it is-
I was at my friends house and we were just hanging out and I was just into the moment and I kissed him and now he won't talk to me and when I did I thought I would like it but I really didn't (I had a crush on him)((key word here is HAD)) and that made me possibly never have him as a friend and lets just say I'm such an idiot for doing this but I want to put it in the past! Help> WHAT DO I DO?????????!!
2006-06-23 06:13:53 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Talk to him honestly. Tell him you're sorry, you made a mistake, and move on.
2006-06-23 06:16:03 · answer #1 · answered by Kiki Joy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You Need To Meet Up With Him Or Call Him Over The Phone
And Tell Him You Want To Work Things Out With Him Because
You Dont Want To Lose Him Over A Kiss .......
2006-06-23 13:19:25 · answer #2 · answered by Casey H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Won't talk to you? As in "won't pick up the phone when you call" or "walks away when you try to talk to him"? Or do you mean he hasn't been the one to make the first overture?
Call him. Tell him you thought you were interested in that way but realized afterwards that it was a mistake and you'd much rather put it behind you and be friends. If the two of you are really friends, he'll understand and in time it'll just be something that happened rather than an issue.
2006-06-23 13:18:19 · answer #3 · answered by cr329 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it's obvious you wanted to kiss him because you did, but did he return the kiss? or did he pushh you away? If he returned the kiss it's quite possible he has been feeling the same about you or not really sure about his feelings, and if he pushed you away then all he really wanted and expected from you was a friendship, but what needs to be done now, is a mature conversation between the two of you, he will eventually gather his thoughts and respond to your calls, so don't give up just yet!
2006-06-23 13:22:10 · answer #4 · answered by Poobear 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go up to him and tell him you want to talk about the incident that occurred at your friends house. That you apologize for kissing him that it was a mistake. You would like to put it behind you, move on and remain friends. Good luck!
2006-06-23 13:19:45 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him some time and then talk to him. Tell hiim you don't want to lose your friendship with him and the kiss was a jmistake if he is your friend he will understand and the two of you can get past this.
2006-06-23 13:17:57 · answer #6 · answered by musiclover 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Apologize. Tell him exactly what you said that you once had a crush on him and that is why you kissed him. If he doesn't understand and still chooses not to speak to you than, oh well. There is nothing else that you can do.
2006-06-23 13:29:33 · answer #7 · answered by Peace2All 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well You know that it happened so you can't hid e the fact that it did... But you can talk to him about it and just tell him how you felt [[ key word being "felt]] and i'm sure he'll understand but thing is to not worry about it while your around him just act how you would normally.
2006-06-23 13:17:51 · answer #8 · answered by ash6lei2a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i am not good at this but i did the same thing when i was 15 to my crush but i did not like it after i did it and so i told him and he understood why i did it and i am still the very best of friends and we are know 22 and 21
2006-06-23 13:18:41 · answer #9 · answered by Faith 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, if he's someone you see often, try hanging out w/ him-like one of the guys- play video games and football with him- it may make him realize that you aren't just some girl that he kissed once. And, if you get the chance, tell him you just want to be friends.
hope i helpped!
<3
2006-06-23 13:19:11 · answer #10 · answered by Navy.Brat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you pretty much are on the right track you know what you did, and now all you have to do is tell him. He should understand if you explain just how you put it here.
2006-06-23 13:39:05 · answer #11 · answered by nina_ross692000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋