I love to cuddle but most guys I have been with hate it.......it kills me
2006-06-23 06:10:51 · 48 answers · asked by McRach 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
all they want is some booty if they dont cuddle move on to a new man....
2006-06-23 06:12:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 6⤊ 1⤋
I agree with the others- i think that its a bad sign if these guys dont want to cuddle. It might mean that they are only interested in sex and therefore no real emotions in it. Perhaps its time to evaluate the relationship.
When you are at the start of the relationship guys might not want to cuddle but if they love you they should be dieing for a little cuddle!
2006-06-23 06:15:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
My BF loves to cuddle...i love it too..
i also think you are making a sweeping comment about guys here...
[well...have you ever considered that you might have B.O... take a bath and use deoderant and wear perfume regularly.... fragrant bodies are usually cuddle-friendly ....guys will be attarcted not only by the beauty of your face and heart but also soothing freshness of you. it will sure help you in the long run..]
2006-06-23 06:45:16 · answer #3 · answered by [ rapunzel ] 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a woman asks me for a cuddle (and I don't get that request very often) I not too keen because its a bit 'girly'
But apparently from what I have read boys like a cuddle.
But if I was asked to snog a girl then waheeeey
2006-06-23 06:14:42 · answer #4 · answered by davie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it's because guys associate that kind of closeness with sex and usually when a woman wants to cuddle, she just wants to cuddle.
2006-06-23 06:12:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Inaccurate generalization for sure. I'm a girl and with the current guy I'm seeing if I'm feeling trusting and have my guard down I love cuddling but somedays I feel he is getting too close and than I pull away. So, its for both sexes and it could be as simple as personal-space preferences or emotional issues (like mine).
2006-06-23 06:15:56 · answer #6 · answered by HE'S NOT INTO ME 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I like to cuddle, some guys just arn't as physical or it could show a lack of interest in you. Most of the time it is because they are tired.
2006-06-23 06:12:52 · answer #7 · answered by JFraz_03894 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because of fear of intimacy and rejection. Women are more emotional and sensitive to those cuddling than men. Men seem to resist or avoid any kind of real, authentic emotional exchange. They seem more interested in playing out the selfish needs of their ego rather than become close with the woman in their life. Not all men are like that though.
2006-06-23 06:25:33 · answer #8 · answered by slimchick 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Funny you say that cause mine just called to ask me if I wanted to come over and cuddle. If men were smart they would learn that 99% of the time cuddling leads to other things!!!!!!!!!!!! To bad I'm working otherwise that's where I'd be
2006-06-23 06:14:35 · answer #9 · answered by ??????????? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
not all of us hate to cuddle it just depends on the guy i hope you find a guy that likes to cuddle as much as you do
2006-06-23 06:13:55 · answer #10 · answered by Bobby D 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I believe most guys don't like to cuddle, because its not in their nature. they are suppose to be strong and cuddling is a soft emotional response and they are not emotional (most) they are definitely physical.....they like to get the job done..and move on to the next, which lots of time is a nap!!!!! or dinner...hahhahaha
2006-06-23 06:23:52 · answer #11 · answered by estelle b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋