I've been dating this guy for about 3 years. He just recently moved in with me about a month ago and I'm already over him. He's to leechy. He wants to be up my @ss 24/7. I really want to break it off completely because I have lost ALL feelings but loathe for him! He is a great guy and I know this will crush him. I've also gotten an interest in women...should I tell him that, also? The only thing that scares me is I won't be able to make it financially, as bad as that sounds. I just bought my first home and that is the main reason I let him move in. I don't want to break his heart, but I don't want to lose my sanity (what little I have left).
2006-06-23 06:05:30 · 9 answers · asked by sweetestthing 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Sit down with him and tell him exactly what you posted. Well, maybe leave out the 'loathe' part but he deserves to know the rest.
Don't stay with someone simply because of the financial obligations YOU have. That's unfair to both parties.
2006-06-23 06:08:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
WOW ok.. Don't tell him you like girls.. That will get him up your arese even more.. He will be like "so your gf coming over tonight" and he will be at your house 24/7... As for the financial part of it.. Just be honest with him and then get a room mate. Try to be as honest with him as you can and remember to take care of your self.. I know it may sound selfish but I can not tell how many times I stayed in a relation because I did not want to hurt the person I was with.. I was miserable and piratically dieing in side. I was depressed and so unhappy. I had to lean how to respect my self and my boundary's and be honest with my self about what was best for me. Harte brake is part of love.. In time you will both feel better. Prolonging this situation is not healthy for the both of you. Good luck!
2006-06-23 13:12:53 · answer #2 · answered by Kayce H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK...do the guy a favor and tell him to leave and you don't love him anymore. Then look for a female room mate. OR...get yourself another part-time job. Depends on how much you want to get rid of him, honey. It's not nice to use people for their money.
2006-06-23 13:15:11 · answer #3 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You kinda gotta tell him. Personally, I would rather a woman broke my heart telling the truth than lying to me. That would hurt worse. MUCH MUCH WORSE!
2006-06-23 13:08:42 · answer #4 · answered by Bob G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
um first do what your heart says, second. i wouldn't tell him you like women. um if i were dating a guy and he told me he like guys i don't think i would be happy about it. um yah. you need to keep you love life straight before your house. if you don't love him don't be living with him!
2006-06-23 13:09:59 · answer #5 · answered by r_zumbrunn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know how but you gotta send him packing. I wouldn't tell him about your interest in women. You two are done, it doesn't matter.
2006-06-23 13:10:44 · answer #6 · answered by Sara 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks like someone didn't think things through, you screwed.
2006-06-23 13:15:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Straight up is the way to be
2006-06-23 13:09:40 · answer #8 · answered by polockpete40 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
put an ad in the paper for a roommate and pack his sh*t up.
2006-06-23 13:08:31 · answer #9 · answered by lacy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋