2006-06-23 06:02:39 · 23 answers · asked by Lorenzo 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
So now you can have the best of both worlds!!
2006-06-23 06:19:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
Just because you're flirting with girls doesn't mean you're REALLY interested in them. Are you? That's a question you should ask yourself. I personally don't believe guys can be bisexual, but I also will admit that I couldn't label myself as 100 percent gay either. I've had sexual feelings for girls -- I think the majority of gay people have. Just take things 1 day at a time and keep us posted. Take care man.
2006-06-23 06:30:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I suspect you might be bi -- but I gotta tell you -- I flirt with everyone and have all my life, I've also been out since I was 14 -- so -- it got me in some trouble when I was young cause girls would take it seriously even though they knew I was gay -- but I don't take just flirting to mean anything. I don't feel any emotion with it, but it makes them happy, I bow over hands, I flutter my eyelashes, I smile -- it doesn't mean anything. With males, when I wasn't taken and was interested I was more likely to tickle, hold hands, etc.
But if you are feeling sexual interest -- bi for you
Reyn
2006-06-23 06:20:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sexuality is a very fluid thing. Many people go with only one sex for years before developing an interest in another. I wouldn't rush to say you're bisexual just yet though. Flirting is very different from actually being with a girl. Flirting is often just a way to boost our confidence.
2006-06-23 07:08:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you just flirting or do you find yourself actually wanting them? I flirt with guys sometimes, and theres no way I want to be with one, flirting is just fun! One of my gay guy friends and I flirt with eachother all the time. People just like to flirt, if thats all you are doing or all that you want, then I wouldn't worry about it. And even if you do want more, being bi is ok.
2006-06-23 06:14:29 · answer #5 · answered by NoBoysAllowed! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does any of this really matter. Do what you want with whom wants it also....this is not brain surgery or rocket science. No one is going to die if you try something new. The worst that can happen is you will be embarrassed if Peter does not behave himself. Big deal. !! We all go through this stuff occasionally when we are younger...sort of like clinging to a chance of hetero...why, I have no idea, but it happens. Perhaps you are going through some kind of mild crisis and this is a sub conscience method of escape...again, who cares. Do what makes you happy at the moment, but don't hurt anyone along the way. Good luck
2006-06-23 06:32:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with the girls, man.
Stay away from the gay lifestyle -- unless you want your life expectancy reduced by 30 years.
That's right. The average gay man lives to be only around 40 years old. Look it up if you don't believe me.
2006-06-23 06:39:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a big difference between flirting and actually being sexually attracted. Flirting is just a non-gender specific way of interacting with people, the real question is do you find yourself being aroused by women lately? Therein lies the answer.
2006-06-23 06:35:09 · answer #8 · answered by Jennifer P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you absolutely feel the need to define yourself, I think it comes down to sexual attraction. Are you sexually aroused by both men and women? If yes - congratulations, you're bi-sexual. Are you only sexually aroused by men, but have fun flirting with women? Congratulations, you're gay.
All in all, I wouldn't stress it. Label yourself however you see fit, or eschew labels all together. Whatever feels right to you. *smiles*
2006-06-23 09:03:59 · answer #9 · answered by weofui 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't care for labels...just call yourself "controversial" and leave it at that.
BTW, Lorenzo, I've read many of your questions and answers and it appears you probably lean towards gay. I think you're just a hottie who enjoys attention from all sexes. Enjoy it while you can!
2006-06-23 10:32:39 · answer #10 · answered by Vincent 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does it matter? Seriously... do you have to label yourself, or can you just live?
Sexuality is not as "fixed" a state as we would like to believe. It is more "fluid," and can change -- no one knows why, really. It just does.
I say live and what happens is your life and I wish you all joy in it.
2006-06-23 06:27:36 · answer #11 · answered by blueowlboy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋