I met my girl on internet. I am American(in America) and she is Chinese(in China). E-mails/chat/phone calls for 6 months. Met in China for 2 weeks. Have been E-mail/chat/phone for last 6 months. On phone we both say "I love you" and I think I do love her..........help?
2006-06-23 05:39:13 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
When I separate the person from who they are, i.e. a body part, that person has an incredible bottom, or they are hot, I am separating the person from who they are to how they appear/look. I am also idealizing who they are based on the objectification of their body, i.e., because that person is hot, I would like to get to know them, or somehow they are appealing emotionally mentally because they are hot. As I am objectifying, lust shows itself in fantasy. What would I like, what would I like to do with and to them. So I would say when the idealized picture of this person is replaced with reality, IE., who they really are. You can accept and be willing to see past faults, issues, problems because Love carries no jealousy, love doesn't judge, love don't do anything for self gratitude, love gives unconditionally, love is trust, love is respect, love is truth!
2006-06-29 01:55:01 · answer #1 · answered by Wolfie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, a good sign is that you met her, but it's hard to only have a relationship online or over the phone. You may have some feelings for her, but it's hard to say that you are truly in love. You need to be with her longer amounts of time. Where is this relationship going? Do you see a future? What are your plans? Answer these questions and figure it out. You need to date someone who is in your zip code unless you plan to move to China.
2006-06-23 05:45:21 · answer #2 · answered by meghanw1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love can be found anywhere. On the internet, in a bar, outside the bar behind the alley against the dumpster. But the question is. What would happen if she didn't say she loved you back. Would you still love her? True love doesn't depend on having that love returned. Unfortunately, thats when love hurts and hearts are broken. Long distance relationships are difficult but if there is love there, it can work but there will be lots of pain.
2006-06-23 06:14:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe it is love but it could just be lust cause you and her only talk over the phone you need more then that for love
2006-06-23 05:43:17 · answer #4 · answered by debra 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Real love comes with time and the sharing of life's up's and down's.
2006-06-23 09:47:02 · answer #5 · answered by Mollywobbles 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's a BS, trust me, im chinese
2006-06-23 05:45:16 · answer #6 · answered by Nate 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋