i love her for last 6 years i proposed her n she accepted, but some times i feel that she not loves me, bcoz she cannot say me no that why she said yes when i proposed her, so i want to get confirmed is really she loves or not.
2006-06-23 05:38:51 · 13 answers · asked by az_afrooz 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Then be upfront about it. Tell her that you can't marry her if she can't tell you why she accepted your proposal.
2006-06-23 05:41:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way is to sit down with her, look into her eyes and ask. You will see the answer. When did you propose? Maybe she was afraid to say no, because she likes the relationship the way it is, but if you want it to be more, then you have to discuss it with her to see if she feels the same way.
Never sell yourself short or give up the dream you have for yourself for the sake of holding on to something that may not be real. Get right to it, if she doesn't truly want to marry you or cannot say, "Darling, I love you and want to be with you forever", then it is time to move on.
Good Luck.
2006-06-23 12:47:09 · answer #2 · answered by auntb629 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
boy that is so hard to know the answer to i know because i am going through something very similiar. mixed signals are so hard to read i am receiving some from someone i care so much about and even if you ask the questions sometimes people tell you what you want to hear. i feel if everything is right then the relationship just falls into place. i guess when she is ready it will happen and if not then moving on will be very hard.
2006-06-23 12:54:49 · answer #3 · answered by wildflower776usa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her. If you don't believe her, let her go and find someone who can "convince" you of their love. Frankly, if I propose to someone and they accept, then that proves they love me. If you are insecure and need her to "prove" her undying loyalty to you, then YOU are the one with the issues, not her, and you should seek professional help before getting married. Love isn't about making a person "prove" they love you. You either believe them or you don't. If you don't, then don't make them suffer for it by your insecurity. Let them go and save both of you the headaches of dealing with your insecurity.
2006-06-23 12:42:12 · answer #4 · answered by brilliantyetconfused 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only way to know for sure is to have the uncomfortable conversation that you are both avoiding. Sit down and talk until both of you are satisfied that all of your questions have been answered. Avoiding the topic will solve nothing.
2006-06-23 12:47:12 · answer #5 · answered by lsparks5 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By her saying she'll marry you is enough people don't take marriage proposals lightly so what makes you think she doesn't love you!
2006-06-23 12:46:29 · answer #6 · answered by Danette 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want this feed back look straight to her eyes without any wink for atleast few minutes and watch whether she bows her looks down.If not say "I love you but you do not love me".Hear minutely what she says.You will get your answer.
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2006-06-23 12:55:32 · answer #7 · answered by zabardast 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she said yes she loves you.
2006-06-23 12:41:50 · answer #8 · answered by scorpio11120 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just see if she marries you, sometimes people `s actions say everything..and remember it hurts but love is all about giving.
2006-06-23 12:43:29 · answer #9 · answered by faisy26 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does she tell you if not ask you should be able to tell by the way she reacts to you
2006-06-23 12:42:56 · answer #10 · answered by wancarol 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋