well i would not say i am cheating but i am just looking at someone close to him likes me and everytime we are in the same room together we are always having sex with our eyes and i like him a lot but i am married to his nephew and maybe that is why it makes me more to want him?
2006-06-23 05:32:34 · 9 answers · asked by Faith 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
This is not intended to be mean: but you need to grow up and take some responsibility.
You're in a relationship and you owe it to your husband to be faithful and loyal. If not, get a divorce. Your husband deserves better. And the Uncle is a dirtbag for having NO RESPECT for his nephew. That is just so totally gross.
2006-06-23 05:39:34 · answer #1 · answered by Dr. Phil-lys 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are three things that I can only think of.
1. Go see a marriage counselor.
2. Maybe you don't want to be married anymore. To me being married is being with that one and only person. Not with some one and trying to f*** on some one else, esp his uncle.
3. Talk to him and maybe you guys should start to swing or open your marriage up. But since you asked this question you know that this is wrong, and you are wanting to know how to cheat on your husband and not get caught.
What ever you do in the dark will soon come to the light. i would say to really think about this. Would you rather risk losing your husband over some meaningless sex with his uncle? If the answer is yes, then I would suggest divorce because then you can do his uncle any time with out the guilt of cheating.
2006-06-23 12:42:40 · answer #2 · answered by sweetsugakb24 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It isn't Like Or love someone else It's Lust U want what u cant have , Its the devil getting in u'r relationship I know Been there and if feels wierd too...... Good Luck I'have to do But i wil come back and add more stuff to this
2006-06-23 13:10:25 · answer #3 · answered by •°♥Ms. SeXy♥°• 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell you husband you are attracted to someone else. Maybe not be specific because he is family and all. Then if you actually have a moment of weakness he will not be as surprised as he will be hurt. I would recommend not going around him. Temptation is much easier to resist if you can avoid it.
2006-06-23 12:36:31 · answer #4 · answered by reesecup 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would guess the secret wou be up if he started wearing protection in the sack with you after never considering it for a long, long time.. why challenge the respect and trust of a marriage.. once it is lost you can never get it back
2006-06-23 12:39:46 · answer #5 · answered by lost_but_not_hopeless 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to be honest with your husband... and BOTH of you sit down with the other person and talk it out... you need to stop lusting after this person or it WILL destroy your relationship... It is wrong to be lusting after someone who isn't your spouse... you are still betraying him... oh and if i'm reading this right it's your husbands uncle... EWWW
2006-06-23 12:38:12 · answer #6 · answered by Jembee1720 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hurm,just put urself in ur husband place. what u'll think?How will u react? i really dont like the idea of cheating behind someone we love(or we once love).maybe i don't anwer ur question but i'm just saying what i think.
2006-06-23 12:39:16 · answer #7 · answered by here_i_am 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like your husband isn't giving you enough attention.so your looking else were.you shouldn't start anything with your husbands uncle.if anyone found out.it would destroy a lot of peoples lives.
2006-06-23 12:59:01 · answer #8 · answered by fantasia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he caught you in bed with another man, that's probably a good sign he knows something is up.
2006-06-23 12:35:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋