How many women still dress sexy for bed after getting married?

Question

Because My wife doesn't, She wares sweat pants to bed or some ugly pajamas. Sometimes even if there is no sex, a guy does want to see some skin, or some breast boobling. "Something", Then you complain if we go to the strip club!!!

Answer 1

There could be several possible reasons for this, but I think the top three are - 1. She's very self-conscious. 2. She's very tired, and doesn't want to get you "all riled up", or 3. She's just wearing what's comfortable.

If it's #1 - make sure she knows how attractive you think she is, and how much you enjoy it when she wears stuff to show herself off. Compliment her whenever she wears something even slightly revealing. Offer to take her lingerie shopping - and hand out over-the-top praise on everything she tries on. She'll come around eventually, but it may take some time.

If it's #2 - tell her you just want to admire her lovely figure, and promise not to make a move until and unless she does. There may be a couple of uncomfortable nights of sleeping for you, but once she realizes that you'll actually let her sleep when she comes to bed in lingerie, odds are she'll do it more often. Every woman loves to feel sexy - we're just not always in the mood for sex.

If it's #3 - I don't think most men realize how uncomfortable the sexy stuff can be to sleep in. Suggest she try sleeping in the nude (or in just panties). I tried it on the suggestion of a boyfriend many years ago (I used to sleep in nightmarish flannel pj's), and will never go back to wearing nightie's again. It's a little strange at first, but so liberating once you get used to it - and waaay more comfortable.

If you're not sure about the reason why she always wears plain jane pj's, ask her. Odds are she'll give you a fairly direct answer if it's number 2 or 3. She'll hedge around the question if she's self-conscious. Good luck!

Answer 2

I dressed sexy for bed when i was married, maybe your wife doesn't feel appreciated by you even when she does show some skin, or maybe she's just plain tired at the end of the day & wants to be confortable, & she doesnt know how much you miss her showing off some skin

Answer 3

If my husband wants me to do something like this, he needs to make me feel desirable and attractive. In other words, Tell her how attractive she is. Mentioned how you like it when she does what ever turns you on. Also do things that turn her on, just because you want to turn her on, and not because She feels she has to do something in return. In the beginning I would not sleep in the nude. He made me feel so attractive by doing little things, then I was very comfortable afterwards.

Answer 4

I hear you loud and clear!!! My wife is the same way. WTF! I did mention it though and she put on something kind of sexy. I mentioned that we should go out and get some sexy night wear for her and she agreed to it. Now we will see if actions speak louder than words. I think you should ask the same thing to your wife, she might say yes. Good luck.

Answer 5

Cross dressers are typically homosexuals but not always. Some men just like feeling like a woman does, or they try to. It is a sexual motivation in all cases. He most likely enjoys anal sex.

Answer 6

i do wear sexy sometimes (around 4 times a week), depends on my mood !

Answer 7

I do and have been married. My husband always makes me feel desirable and I think that is why.

Answer 8

YES I DO AND I BEEN MARRIED FOR 32YR IT HELP KEPT OUR SEX LIFE ON FIRE AND MEN LOVE SEE THEY WIFE LOOKING SEX IT MAKE IT AVERY GOOD NINTH

Answer 9

I wear NADA to bed!

Answer 10

i wear nothing in bed.