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Question

what does it mean when a husband and wife dont sleep together in the same bed anymore?

Answer 1

Hello. - I have a friend who is in a long term relationship 5 or 6 years. My friend's girlfriend is a light sleeper and she slept first on a sofa sleeper for 4+ years, than in a recliner chair for almost a year, my friend takes the bed. He apparently snores very loudly.

They have a Fabulous relationship, regardless of where they lay their heads down at night.

Have a great weekend! :)

Answer 2

That depends on the couple. Couples can remain in LOVE but fall out of LUST. That's fine if both agree.
When couples get older, if one has a sleep disorder like jumpy legs, or getting up and down several times a night to pp; and that disturbs the precious sleep of their spouse, they elect to have separate beds.
That does NOT mean the relaitonship is over by any means.
The relationship can be just fine without lust, when love is true.

Many men that get ED sure hope like crazy their wife does not think that is the end of their true LOVE.

Separate beds mean very little, as long as the couple is together.

Now, if they are sleeping separately in ANGER, then it means the relationship needs work. Pride must be put aside, and the couple needs to begin to flirt again, and work on pleasing each other more...sometimes one or both gets lazy, or takes things for granted too much. That sort of problem can be revived by a little EFFORT and creativity. But it will get worse, if nothing is done.

Problems grow worse if they are not resolved;
but don't assume a problem, unless you are sure there is one.

stw

Answer 3

A lot of people when they get older get tired of each others snoring, kicking and stuff like that and they pretty much decided in order to be comfortable during sleep they prefer it that way. Other times it could be a bad marriage but I do know there are perfectly good explanations sometimes. If you are very young asking this question, you need to remember, it doesn't mean your sex life is gone when you get older BUT when you get older the need to do it all the time or all night isn't quite there like it was when young or early in a marriage. As you grow, you learn that there are more important things in life and you can "do that" when you are married anytime you want almost. Don't get me wrong, I think sex is very important.

Answer 4

It depends on the reason.

My mom and her husband of 2 years don't sleep in the same room because he snores really badly.

My bf's parents sleep in seperate rooms because they find sleeping in a bed alone more comfortable.

My grandparents sleep in seperate beds because they have those sleep-o-matic beds that change positions.

If it's not for a reason like this, then I would sit down and talk to your husband about it. There's obviously something wrong.

Answer 5

The husband stays with a hard on while the wife snores her a** off

Answer 6

Trouble

Answer 7

It means their in the worse stages of for better or worse vows they have spoken to each other...they haven't given up but need time apart to recognize whats really important between themselves.

Answer 8

The husband snores or the wife is mad.

Answer 9

Nothing my parents have never slept in the same bed and they are happy.

Answer 10

it means one of them or both of them aren't comfortable sleeping with each other. why stay married if you aren't comfortable enough sleeping with your husband or wife? unless of course there are other reasons.