2006-06-23 05:01:21 · 31 answers · asked by samantha lee 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Newborn & Baby
a rollercoaster, you have your ups and downs on the same rail, but at the same time thrilling and fun.
2006-06-23 05:05:48 · answer #1 · answered by RICARDO M 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No better feeling in the world, knowing you will have a life partner to share every emotion with is the best feeling I have ever felt, I have been married for 13 years and you do have ups and downs, and its not perfect, it is what you make of it. Be a team, I love being married to the love of my life, and when you have that feeling then you will know the "Feeling" of being married.
2006-06-23 05:13:24 · answer #2 · answered by slf620 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a great feeling if you enjoy who you are with. Some people know they are marrying the wrong person but go through with it because of the pressure from friends and family, and also because everything is paid for.
Nothing is final until you say "I do."
If you guys are in love, then marriage is beautiful. But there is a honeymoon phase: everything is perfect for six months, then the reality kicks in. The reality is that maintaining a marriage is work.
From there on you have to work to communicate and compromise with each other. But that's when the really good stuff starts because you guys know each other so well. You become closer and better friends.
2006-06-23 05:08:29 · answer #3 · answered by Sexual chocolate 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on who you're married to. Don't confuse physical attraction with love. Passion wanes or at least changes when you have the pitter patter of little feet in your house. Before marrying make sure that you are in a solid, respectful relationship with good communication. I've been married 9 years, and while we've had our ups and downs, (Occasionally there are days when the sound of his voice is like fingernails on a chalkboard), we have a pretty good relationship and it feels very natural to be together.
2006-06-23 05:13:39 · answer #4 · answered by J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, as a married person myself, there are two types of feelings(woman's perspective mostly). One, if you're happily married, is of permanent love and friendship and support of eachother, the opposite of loneliness. The other feeling, if the marraige is unhappy, is often of being trapped, prisoner to someone else's expectations and demands, even fear of the failure to please the person who is supposed to love you unconditionally, but doesn't seem to know how, or care. Everyone has ups and downs, but in a good marraige your spouse should be happy for you when you succeed and embrace and comfort you in your failures, not point out as many faults as they can and make you feel worse.
2006-06-23 05:20:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is a wonderful feeling, I guess all these other people have never been in love. I have been married to my husband for 6 years and we have been together 12. I love him more and more everyday. I love having him to rely on. It just takes trust, understanding and being totally in love for a marriage to work. I think i feel in love with my husband all over again when we had children. He is my best friend and my soul mate.
2006-06-23 05:13:43 · answer #6 · answered by housewives5 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hopefully you love each other and enjoy being around each other so feeling married in this kind of relationship is pretty good.
Being understanding and flexiable is very important and not selfish is also very important.
So life is always interesting and sharing new experiences ... good and bad you learn from each other and you grow together as well.
In relationships that are not so great I believe you grow apart and / or lose trust and faith in the other person.
2006-06-23 05:08:25 · answer #7 · answered by smilingmick 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I love being married I would not trade it for the world, you'll like it to as long as you both love each other, respect one and other, you can totally trust your life in their hands, and you share common goals for your future. I am 24 years old my husband and I have been dating for 10 years off and on and married for 4 years and going strong.
2006-06-23 05:25:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are in love with the person. It is happiness. Wondering what they are doing all day and missing them every second. Yeah you have some bad times, but if it's love, you get through them and you get stronger together and it makes it easier the next time. Knowing you are not alone and someone cares for and loves you. And not being scared at night in the dark in that big bed by yourself. Having 2 paychecks doesn't hurt either. lol
2006-06-23 05:10:54 · answer #9 · answered by noseygirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marriage is always going to have it's ups and downs. You can't tell me that you've never been in a disagreement with your best friend?
To me, marriage is like being with your best friend. You do everything together and share everything together...laughs, smiles, tears, sorrow, joy, etc. The love is unconditional.
I have been married for six years now and have an 11 mo. old baby girl. I couldn't be happier!
2006-06-23 05:59:11 · answer #10 · answered by Mom of One in Wisconsin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is truly great to be married when you do it for the right reasons. My wife is my best friend. I feel in no way restricted or confined. Sex has never been better than with the woman that I love unconditionally!
2006-06-23 05:10:15 · answer #11 · answered by Zach 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋