hi all. my bro is such a pain in the bum. he irritates and annoys me and makes my life a living hell. i just wish he'd get out of my face and let me live. i have been ill since age 11 which eventually lead to depression, OCD and nurvous bladder. im 22 now and still have all these and the last thing i need is sum1 like him making me even more ill to an extent, i could end up back in mental hospital like i did 4 yrs ago in 2002. what can i do? any ideas? he wont move out and i cant move out coz my parents have agreed to look after me till im fully better. ive been put on more and more tablets by hospital but no matter how many they want me to take, its not going to wrk coz the foundation (the problems at home)are not resolved and it seems as tho he dunt want me to get better the selfish bastard. what can i do?anyone been in that situation?let me knw and he's been away since 8 yrs n not seen the worst i went through. and the wrost bit,my mum keeps taking his side no matter how wrong he is
2006-06-23 04:51:56 · 6 answers · asked by allgiggles1984 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Sweetheart, you definitely have some issues to work out. First, it's clear that you should have some type of counseling. Secondly, find a way to let the past go and face the future.Siblings can be cruel, but you have the ability to put this behind you.Tell your family that you cannot hope to get better without their help, and include your brother's treatment of you as part of the cure. Third, you have to face the fact that maybe you would be better off without your family "helping" you and go it alone!
2006-06-23 05:03:10 · answer #1 · answered by GRUMPY1LUVS2EAT 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take karate or judo and kick his a**. Obviously he's old enough to know better. Illness that led to depression? How much penecillin did you take without reversing it with Nystatin? You are likely having side effects of an imbalanced PH. Read this:
2006-06-23 04:57:29 · answer #2 · answered by shehawke 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Download a bunch of child pornography onto his computer, then report him to the authorities. That part of your problem will go away for a long time.
2006-06-23 04:55:04 · answer #3 · answered by david s 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why don't you start noticing his good side. even how bad a person might be there is always a good side of him. maybe you are just to pegged with him that's why you cant appreciate him. why don't you start loving him.
2006-06-23 04:58:55 · answer #4 · answered by french 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you have any relatives you could stay with or that he could stay with? Have you tried talking to your parents about this?
Maybe talk to your therapist and he/she could help with a solution!
2006-06-23 05:01:29 · answer #5 · answered by SL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the only thing that can help you is fasting and prayer.
2006-06-23 04:55:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋