2006-06-23 04:50:48 · 5 answers · asked by clayton693 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Because the nicer you are, the more people think they can walk all over you and treat you anyway they want. There is nothing wrong with being nice, but don't be a pushover.
2006-06-23 04:52:10 · answer #1 · answered by Hot Pants 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree.....the behavior of being "nice" is often mistaken as a weakness or a sense of needy...I hate to admit it..but when i was dating this guy ..he said to me.."I think you are too needy" I was crushed. I was doing what i thought was a kind gesture and that was I being polite, and caring...I was pushed away. It seems as if you treat people harshly they are attracted to that..but you know sometimes we learn and grow. I am still very caring and loving..that's who I am I cannot change that....but what I am not anymore is a "pushover" and I let him know it.
Be confident in who you are. The person looking for your type will find you....someone else with a kind gentle heart.
Just be aware that you do not have to agree with everything or do what he/she may want to do.
Best regards.
2006-06-23 12:16:37 · answer #2 · answered by Pammie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because sometimes when ur nice people take it as a weakness and not somethin special like it should be ,sometimes we are not taken serioulsly because we are to nice and also it depends on who it is that u r refering to if it is a relationship that is somethin diff. then if its freinds,u didnt tell what the situation was
2006-06-23 11:58:04 · answer #3 · answered by chell 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i hav come to find that out too. u try to be nicer so things wil go smoother and not upset ur mate, and it backfires. wanna know why? BC THEY MISTAKE UR NICENESS (KINDNESS) FOR A WEAKNESS!!!
2006-06-23 11:55:26 · answer #4 · answered by kkaze 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How dare you say that to me you nicey!!!
2006-06-23 11:55:24 · answer #5 · answered by on my way 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋