i have no friends, no family, and no life. I've been single for the longest time, which is pretty darn pathetic. If i cant have a girlfriend, then there is no point for me to live. Life isnt worth it if you cant be HAPPY, and experience everything
2006-06-23 04:40:18 · 11 answers · asked by theone 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
you are not alone I can be your friend if you want :)
2006-06-23 04:44:23 · answer #1 · answered by nini 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I was on the same position not too long ago. I am not from the US so I have no family here, got divorced recently, had no money and no cinfidence. I've been on antidepressants for a while. All this to say that I may not know completely what is going on in your life but I'm close. The las thing you want to do is give up. I know that the worst feeling in the world is when you've lost hope. As long as we have hope we can get through pretty much anything. It seams a lot worse than it is. I resolved to enjoying the momoent. Enjoy the littel things for now. I'm serious. When someone paid me a compliment or I saw something nice I'd just think "now that was nice" and it would brighten up my day. If you try to look at the "big" picture all the time it get rather depresing and hard. Live in the moment and enojy the small stuff and pretty soon you'll meet the right girl and be very happy.
2006-06-23 04:50:42 · answer #2 · answered by ray_hilton717 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your posts all seem to cry out for help.
You are depressed -- and I understand -- I am gay, but the few times I haven't had a lover over the years -- I have quickly become prone to falling into depression -- having the other person to live for is very important. to everyone
But suicide is not an answer. The first thing you need to consider is counseling. There are reasons within yourself to live as well. Do not concentrate on death, the pathos damages you -- instead, concentrate on life. I'll bet you do have friends, really. Love others, reach out, if they do not gather you to them, then gather them to you.
Life is worth living, reach up and embrace the sky. Face the day with new hope (not the movie, the emotion) -- you will soon enough have those who love you, for the new you will attract them like flies to honey. Take care of those weaker, and always be there for those who are there for you.
And if you want to talk, and need a friend. I would be glad to listen, I've put my email after my signature block. I make and pretty good listener and I hope I make a good friend. Not only I, but my life-partner as well, care.
May light find you.
Warm thoughts,
Reyn
http://www.rebuff.org
believeinyou24@yahoo.com
2006-06-23 04:58:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be such an emo...just because you have to friends or family doesn't mean it is the end of life as you know it. Get off your *** and do something about it. Complaining just makes it worse and no one will feel sorry for you. When I was a teenager I used to feel this way and now I look back and think how pathetic it was. You can experience things on your own. Only YOU can make YOU happy.
2006-06-23 04:45:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well God has you living for a reason. you have a purpose here!! everyone does and if you doubt it, read the Purpose Driven Life by Rick Warren. being married or having a boyfriend or girlfriend isn't everything, in fact it brings on more pain then you could ever imagine. if you choose not to live you could be missing out on some of the greatest blessings that God has for you in life. he may have a perfect wife for you maybe in another country. but you need to discover your purpose and ask God to help you fulfill that. and in that you may find your perfect match God has waiting for you. dont give up. cherish the life god has made for you. you can do many things being single then you can being married and having a family. trust me at that
2006-06-23 04:49:14 · answer #5 · answered by toni h 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should find some hobbies or something positive to do to get your mind off of being lonely. It seems like you have too much time on your hands. If you would put as much energy into doing something positve as you do into always being negative then you would have a pretty interesting life.
2006-06-23 05:01:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey ! U R Damn lucky in this world to know that ppl dont want u..... This is the beginning of self realisation and knowing that all the world is selfish and we all r actually alone
2006-06-23 04:59:25 · answer #7 · answered by burfi_aur_ladoo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"happiness" is a farce. Your average person has no creative drive and the only thing they can make is love. Make something or you really don't have a point to live.
2006-06-23 04:47:38 · answer #8 · answered by tamtamgp7 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go make friends. Don't worry prince charming. one day your princess will come to you. Or you could go out a find her yourself. she will take away all of your sorrow and fill your life with love and happiness.
2006-06-23 04:46:56 · answer #9 · answered by riri4u 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a job. how can a woman be interested in a person that has no self esteem.
2006-06-23 04:46:02 · answer #10 · answered by fatmanreynolds 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you really want to make friend then u must destroy all the walls of fear and then you can find your best friend,,anyway Im your friend,
2006-06-23 04:48:43 · answer #11 · answered by sara s 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋