After being sure that I have found the love of my life, and a wedding happening very soon. A woman who has been stalking him for more than 20 years is still on his heels. She says they never had a relationship cause he doesn't want her. The thing is, since it can't be her, she swears, he will never have peace in his life with another woman if its not her. He's famous but you'd never know, and that's what I love about him so much, he's very polite. Should I weather the storm since I know he never cheated, or opt for less drama in my life. She has done this to 2 other girl friends.
2006-06-23 04:30:44 · 15 answers · asked by Crista B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If he loves you and you trust him, then don't worry about it. If he wanted her, then he would be with her by now. He would have been with her between the other 2 girls! If you love him that much, then I say go for it, because love like that doesn't come around that often! But he needs to put his foot down with that other woman! She is stalking him it sounds like to me and maybe that is a charge you can tell her that she will be charged with if she doesn't back off. But what you are talking about doing, is exactly what she is trying to get you to do! Don't do it. Go for your happiness. Love your man and be happy! He sounds wonderful! Good luck in your life and marriage and tell that ***** to back off cuz he's your man, and not her's!
2006-06-23 04:36:33 · answer #1 · answered by nalerij 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
First of all, everything you've said about this guy is totally based on what you see ON THE SURFACE. You don't know anything about him. And for a woman your age I'd like to think that when it comes to relationships you'd have more SUBSTANCE aside of the guys physical attributes. You didn't say anything about how caring, loving, smart, or thoughtful he is. He doesn't even know you exist. This guy has two kids already so what makes you think you can tear him away from his family? Doesn't matter if you profess your love to him from the top of a skyscraper, the guy doesn't know you and chances are at the very least he might be flattered....but that's about it. So many single and available men out there. It's time to broaden your horizons sister!
2016-03-15 17:36:40 · answer #2 · answered by Barbara 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes famous? really? lol then he shud be able to get full protection from this woman and shud ask for it call the police immediatly and say that she told u he will never have peace thats a threat and hopefully they can get a retsraing order ur gonna have a new marriage and the last thing u need is her problems it might make u guys fight alot..get police involved asap!
2006-06-23 04:40:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely, if you love eachother then stay with him. After all, it's not his fault she's a psycho.
Report her to the authorities, start collecting evidence of her harassment, get a restraining order, etc. What she is doing is illegal and with enough of a case, you can have her put away and out of your life for good.
Best of luck!
2006-06-23 04:34:19 · answer #4 · answered by Chryss 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as he isn't engaging the attention, ignore her. Get a restraining order, whatever you have to do. Chances are her chase is more about competing with you then getting him, so hang in there. You love this man. She just doesn't like herself and is stuck on a fantasy.
2006-06-23 04:38:54 · answer #5 · answered by Jen 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't worry about the other girl, yeah you might have to deal with some crap but is leaving him alone worth it over her? It sounds like your love for each other is very strong. I would stay and proceed with the wedding and have a very happy and beautiful life. Who is this lady? Would you like someone to help you off her?..lol..jk...
2006-06-23 04:51:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may want to look into a restraining order. If you two are madly in love try and get through this. Get legal help if needed.
2006-06-23 04:35:27 · answer #7 · answered by Jerry garcia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mystery is right, you should call 911, she can be charged with harassment and you could get a restraining order. Or you could take a page from my girlfriend's book and beat the living **** out of her, hahah.
2006-06-23 04:38:45 · answer #8 · answered by Reverie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he loves you and you love him, who cares what anyone else thinks or says. if she is calling and harassing, or stalking get a restraining order on her. after a few times getting picked up, she may not do it anymore and/or they may keep her. i dont know, good luck.
2006-06-23 04:45:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
For the answer, tune in next time to... Days of our Lives
2006-06-23 04:33:39 · answer #10 · answered by psykhaotic 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋