Hi friends I have a problem I am 35, and a girl of 14 want to make me her friend, should I make her my friend, If yes then what type of friendship it should be...........................
I am in a great problem please some one help me...........
2006-06-23 04:18:40 · 13 answers · asked by Addy 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Well you can be like a big brother friend but that is about it, other wise you will find yourself in Jail. But be careful cuz if she gets attached to you and you hurt her feelings, you could still find yourself in trouble, cuz there are little girls that want to hurt you so they cry wolf and try to say that you rape them and put your butt in jail! I just had that happen to my little brothers best friend, he's 27 and the girl is 17. He's still in jail til they get everything straightened out! So be careful! Good luck!
2006-06-23 04:21:36 · answer #1 · answered by nalerij 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
t is not going to be just friendship. It is an INFATUATION for the girl and for you it will be surely a HEAD ACHE trying to convince her there could be nothing like a serious relationship between you two and that later she would surely regret her decision and so on.
Finally you would end up feeling guilty and vexed.
So, it is in the interest of both of you, I would suggest you break all friendship of any kind immediately and quit.
It may be difficult for you to behave like that to a little girl, but you have to behave like a matured person and do it in the int erst of the child! a child indeed!
2006-06-23 11:28:49 · answer #2 · answered by Lotus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you nutz???
Do NOT go there...you could wind up in a situation that will get you into DEEP trouble. You don't really know this girl. What if she accuses you of doing something to her? Or worse, what if you give into temptation in a weak moment and actually DO something sexual to her. You'll wind up in jail my friend.
Ask yourself, is a "friendship" with a child worth this???
Just in case you are in doubt, the answer is: NO NO NO NO NO
Be wise, be safe
stw
2006-06-23 11:30:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are more than twice her age so have a parent-daughter relationship otherwise making her your friend seems weird cos of age difference. Many people want to hang around people of the same age. Anyway you can be friends as long as their are boundaries.
2006-06-23 11:25:22 · answer #4 · answered by ωнєη уσυ ѕмιℓє уσυ мαкє мє ѕмιℓє 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Those type of relationships are not called friendship...you see her as a friends but she see's you like a mentor.. whateva you do, don;t make her miss out alot with her age mates .. as a result of spending too much time with you. if you want to be "friends" like you mentioned, you should be able to impact her life positively ...
2006-06-23 11:35:08 · answer #5 · answered by Ebongido 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Run! You have no business befriending a 14 year old.
2006-06-23 11:21:46 · answer #6 · answered by Kwk2lrn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How is it that you are involved with a 14 year old girl? What is your connection with this kid?
2006-06-23 11:22:50 · answer #7 · answered by PEPERE 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OH GOD PLEASE DON'T.....i understand that you are a great guy but think of the consequences.....you are 35 and she is 14? ok come on...you don't want people to start thinking of you like MICHAEL JACKO....
2006-06-23 11:22:20 · answer #8 · answered by DcanDoll 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont listen 2 all these people u should make her ur friend she really like u very much
2006-06-24 04:40:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she could be your doughter,avoid this kind of relationships bcs you 2 cannot undrestand eachother,,there are alot of women in your age ,why you dont go for someone that really matchs u?
2006-06-23 11:25:56 · answer #10 · answered by sara s 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋