I am sexually active and im very protective (using condoms) and the last couple of times i went raw and i tohught he came i me and i started to get stressed over the fact if i was pregnant (WHICH IM NOT) ... and i really dont like the feeling of being unsure of somethin ... especialy being pregant ... WHAT TO DO?
2006-06-23 04:18:38 · 17 answers · asked by Honey Bee 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Im 15 about to be 16 in Sept.
2006-06-23 04:43:16 · update #1
Be real gentle - take her into the bedroom give her a hug first and say how much you respect her and you always want to keep an honest relationship going and now you want her advice . Let her lecture you about - responibilitie and how your too young for this - don't argue with her - say you will remember what she says and you would also like her to come with you to the obgyn.
if you hide it then it shows you are not ready to face up to your decision to be sexually active . One other thing you should continue to use condoms even if you are on birth control - it will protect you from different sexual diseases but I 'm sure your mom will tell you all that .
2006-06-23 04:29:06 · answer #1 · answered by prettymama 5 · 4⤊ 2⤋
Well thinking that being on the pill will get rid of all your problems is foolish I concieved BOTH of my children while on birth control and was faithful to it too, so dont plan on that sweetie, also using a condom prevents STD's which is also what you need to be worried about, if you feel that you can not talk to your parent(s) go to your local health clinic and they will help you out, your parent does not have to know. Just be prepared for what could come out of you having sex at sucha young age, so you really want to have a baby at this age? There is no foolproof way of NOT getting pregnant or contract an STD other than to NOT do it. You are way to young sweetie, think of your life that is ahead of you!!!
2006-06-23 06:22:00 · answer #2 · answered by slf620 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I strongly believe that you should be able to go to your parents about stuff like this, but it does depend on your age and your relationship with your parents. You should approach it carefully, but go to her. If you are having sex you must be prepared to be responsible for your actions. Birth control is not 100% affective and neither are condoms. I went through the same thing when I was younger and I wish I would have talked to my mom before I did. Now I am a mother of one (and I would not have it any other way), but I wish I was a little smarter about my decisions. Just think things through, and remember that birth control doesn't prevent STD's.
2006-06-23 04:37:40 · answer #3 · answered by Eve 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you need yotur Mom's permission for birth control, maybe you should rethink the whole sex thing and you should still be using condoms.
Have you heard of STDs? Pregnancy may be the nice thing that can happen. If you are not old enough to support and raise a child, you should not be having sex.
I know this is not the way it works, but you have a long life ahead of you, why take at chance at screwing it up.
2006-06-23 04:22:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to planned parenthood and tell them what you just said and they will talk with you about birth control and how to stay safe if you are going to be sexually active. You should always use condoms anyway if you are going to be sexually active and you are not in a monogamous relationship. You could get worse than pregnant, you could get an STD!
2006-06-23 04:22:23 · answer #5 · answered by cornflkgurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well Love,
If your close to ur mother like Iam then U just sit done with her and let her know that Ur sexually active and to save her from becoming an early grandma that you would like to be on birth control.....Let her know that U use protection but u can never be to safe....
Do not tell Ur mom that u had unprotected sex then she won't have trust in you!
If your mom is as understanding as my mom was then u'll be fine!
I lost my virginity when i was 18 and i had my daughter at 21 and Iam 23 now and my mom is my best friend just be honest with her okay!
Smile
:)
It well be ok!
2006-06-23 04:28:45 · answer #6 · answered by nayfisher 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can talk to your mother, tell her that you are sexually active and need to have protection. If you feel that you can not, there are clinics, such as Planned Parenthood, that can help you with getting the pill as well. But still use condoms, as the pill does not protect you against disease.
2006-06-23 04:23:57 · answer #7 · answered by psycmikev 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to your mom sit her down and talk to her about your active sex life and still use the condoms and the birth control pills - birth control pills will not stop HIV, AIDS or any other sexually transmitted disease but a condom can.
2006-06-23 04:22:03 · answer #8 · answered by camlankolche 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Birth control pill are not 100% fool proof. There is a remote possibility that you may get pregnant, even while on the pill. The only safe solution, abstain from sex..
2006-06-23 04:22:49 · answer #9 · answered by WC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when i was 16 i just told my mom i wanted on the pill. helps with ur monthly cycle. but truth be known u dont have to ask her. go to ur local health department tell them u need appt to get on birth control. its free and they cant tell ur parents if u dont want them too. i myself took my 15 yr old to the dr last month to get on the pill. why? cause i dont want no grandbabies yet.
2006-06-23 08:16:15 · answer #10 · answered by kitttkat2001 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋