2006-06-23 04:11:52 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
OMG you sound just like me about 2 months ago. my best Friend went out with this boy like 4 years ago, and HES REALLY CHANGED and when i say that i mean it! and i was scared to tell her. but she is kool with it and we wen out for while. but it really depends on the situation like how long have they been apart and does she still talk about him a lot things like that. but before you start anything make it kool with her
2006-06-23 04:40:08 · answer #1 · answered by ♥ ~*Angela*~ ♥ 2 · 8⤊ 4⤋
Well a lot of it depends on how long they have been broke up and what kind of a relationship they had. If they were really serious and it hasn't been long since they broke up, then you can't cross that line, she is your best friend remember. But if it was just a fling for a couple months and it's been over 4 months since they dated, just tell her what your thoughts are and if she is any kind of a best friend, then she should be ok with it. Just be acreful because guys are the #1 way to lose a friend and trust me, most of them aren't worth it!
2006-06-23 11:15:45 · answer #2 · answered by nalerij 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it depends on the nature of their break up. If they can't speak 2 each other anymore and there's animosity between them, then it might be hard. What you need to weigh up is, what is more important to you??.. Your friendship?.. Or the possibility of a relationship??.. If you are good friends with this person then i wouldn't recommend going down that road because it will most likely alienate you from each other. However, if you can sit down and talk things through and come to some kind of understanding on the issue then all is not lost. This rests allot on the feeling's of your friend i guess... Ask yourself... Is if your friend says their not comfortable with it are you going to act accordingly or are you gonna do it anyway???....
Best of luck... :o)
2006-06-23 11:21:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she's your best friend, then you'll be able to talk to her about everything right? do your usual girl talk thingies and just tell her straight. now, if your friend still has feelings for her ex, then she might have a problem with that. but since the guy is now her ex, he's fair game right? good luck. :)
2006-06-23 11:14:42 · answer #4 · answered by J. McCoy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her, i did to mine and we have now been together for 3 years. i'm now due to get married to him in september on which she is my maid of hounor and i'm expecting are first baby on the 25th december. If she is a true friend she will understand and respect your feelings.
2006-06-23 11:32:48 · answer #5 · answered by ness 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's difficult so you have to make it her idea. Be like you think he's really hot, hopefully she found somebody else by now then you can ask for her help. Make sure you ask if she'll have a problem with this or not.
2006-06-23 11:16:51 · answer #6 · answered by askmeguru21 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on how mature is your best friend (and your friendship), why they end and how they end!!! BUT...if you want to maintain that relation...YOU DON'T!!! and if you really want to be with the ex...you do! (If you are willing to pay the price!)
Put it in a balance...what you'll gain and loose!!!???
2006-06-23 11:28:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When it comes to the x of your best friend, you just DO NOT go there. Why? because you will be caught in the middle forever. You will eventually lose one of them, or both.
Think again "friend".
stw
2006-06-23 11:20:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just go ahead... what are best friends for... i think ur best friend will be more than happy to know ur intentions..
there is nothing to hide from ur best friend..
2006-06-23 11:29:36 · answer #9 · answered by virgo26 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ask her if she would get mad if any of her friends likd him or went out wit him and see what she says and then tell her
2006-06-23 11:15:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋