the girl really cares for me but says that she doesnt have the same feelings. the main reason is that we are both from different family backgrounds and she is not confident about talking to her family about me. on my homefront, the signal is green all the way. she says that if she says yes now and then her family interferes, she wont be able to contradict them. i dont know if she's hiding anything from me.how do i bring about that confidence in her? and how do i bring about that feeling in her heart for me,- the way i feel about her??
2006-06-23 04:11:18 · 6 answers · asked by damnguddu 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
you can't...you can't make someone feel the way YOU want them to feel for you. The only thing you can do is try, to a certain point, to show her that you really want and need her. And if this girl really cares about you she'll try to work with you, not give you excuses. When someone cares about you they will do anything to show you they care. Just like i'm sure you try to show her. If they don't change for you then maybe its time you opened your eyes.
The same thing happened to me.....now look at me, i'm single, broke and homeless. I'm living my dream man!!!!
2006-06-23 04:27:38 · answer #1 · answered by ray 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she really loves u she wouldn't let nething get in the way of her happiness and being wit u. Something else is up wit that. U can't make her love u, there's no way 2 do it. If she doesn't care enuff about u now, u shouldn't try 2 force her 2, there are a lot of women out there. U'll find some1 who wants 2 be wit u 4 u and ur family's belief's. U jus need 2 cut it now so that u don't get nemore hurt than u already are. Find some1 who will care about u regardless and u don't have to worry about tryin 2 make them love u.
2006-06-23 04:49:00 · answer #2 · answered by ANC_40 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't convince anyone to love you.
She was nice enough to say that she cares for you as a friend but no in a romantic way. Does she have to be rude for you to understand????
Take it for what is is, a polite rejection, and move on.
2006-06-23 04:17:43 · answer #3 · answered by Blunt 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
family background is more important than you may realize. she not only is telling you she doesn't have the same feelings for you as you have for her but that her family won't approve either and what her family thinks is extremely important to her. i don't believe there is any chance this relationship will work for you. you can't make someone love you. remain her friend if possible but you need to move on. she is not the one for you.
2006-06-23 04:32:47 · answer #4 · answered by sunnyca 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi.you cant convince someone to love you.you have to just give her time.she will tell you she loves you in her own time.maybe shes trying to protect herself.not from you but getting hurt.maybe in the back of her mind she thinks if she tells her family about you and it doesn't work out it will have all been for nothing.she;ll have to tell her family about you sooner or later.and when she does don't give her family any reason not to like you.and make them see the great loving boyfriend you are.
2006-06-23 04:53:51 · answer #5 · answered by fantasia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Religion has nothing to do with love, and parents should not choose your lover for you. Honestly its about you loving the person not your parents because they will eventually learn to live with it. You dont need to convince them to get married, you should just i guess, not mention that he is because it should never matter. It is great that YOU love him even if your religions are different.
2016-03-15 17:13:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋