What it feels like to lose a true love in order to appreciate it forever?!?

Answer 1

Platonic feelings, indeed. A priceless experience. It happens mostly in old Hindi movies.

Answer 2

You shouldn't need to lose it in order to appreciate it. If you don't experience it, know it, feel it, live it during the process (from start to finish) there's either something wrong with you or its not "true" love in the first place!

Anyone fortunate enough to find and have such a thing damn well better be smart enough to appreciate it as much as possible while its happening! Once its gone, yeah you'll appreciate it (or should) but what else could fill such a void in ones being?

True love is something which the two involved ARE one being, share the same thoughts, heartbeats, souls etc. That energy is timeless and it goes far beyond anything physical. Appreciation has to be NOW from the first moment then move forward.

Answer 3

I lost my husband and my true love 4 years ago. It was devastating because we had only been married for 27 years. We were so looking forward to the rest of our lives together! I didn't realize how hard it would be to lose not only my true love but my best friend. Losing your true love makes you feel like your have been ripped apart because you have lost your identity. You are so much a part of each other that you don't know how to start anew. Still, I wouldn't give up that experience for a billion dollars. I have experienced his unconditional love. Although he is gone and I am now alone, he will be with me by being in my heart forever

Answer 4

You do not have to lose love to appreciate it. You merely need to step back and look at the relationship. Then look at the folks around you. So many people work so hard at finding true love that they cannot see the forrest for the trees. If you have it, you know it.

It is important to remember that true love might not be reciprocated. Sometimes you carry that love in your heart many years after the break up. That is okay as long as you can remain friends and not let the old love interfere with new relationships.

Answer 5

I did something very stupid, and it cost me alot in relationship to my true love. But I know it is true love, because after so long, I am still madly in love with her. No matter how much time goes by, always love. I have gone out with other women, some of them very nice relationships that i could have been very happy in for a long time, but it always comes back to the one true love that causes them to end. I wish i could get over her, but then if i did, what would that say? True love never dies, ever.

Answer 6

At first, it feels like as if the world has turned its back on me but in the end, I realized that it was better that I have loved and lost, as compared to have not loved at all. To each life, some rain must fall, we cannot always get what we wish for and the most we can do is just cherish the experiences, good and bad. :)

Answer 7

Its a feeling you'll never get past. your true love will always be in your heart and in the back of your mind. no matter what damage might of been done during the breakup. you cant stop loving him just because for whatever reason you cant be together. you just live with it, knowing you found true love.

Answer 8

An eterntity of doubt, guilt and uneasy contemplation of things yet to come. Unfortunately, we cannot dwell in the past. It is not up to us to live where we once were and now knowingly, gave up that right. We are only allowed to move forward and learn from those mistakes. And not even hope for other chances to correct our past. If it is to be, it will be. When is not up to us. HIS will be done !

Answer 9

i really liked this one guy. i feel kind of childish saying that, but it's true. i had just been checking him out, making sure he was a really great guy, and over a few months i befriended him and my feelings only intensifies.it was a little scary for me, because i got to see this guy everyday, almost. and then this one day i had a bit of a breakdown after school. he and a few of my other friends were in the auditorium, and i was in the hall with another of my friends. i just started bawling because of normal thoughts that arise because of liking a guy and my friend didn't know what to do. i drew a lot of attention and this guy along with my other friends cam running, so i ran, not wanting to be seen like this.all five, in total, followed me.all i wanted to do was hide. but the one who was in the hall with me, she helped me, and she got rid of the others except for one other girl who was also extremely helpful.the next day, i found this out a while after it happened, my friend from the hall told the guy that i liked him and that was why i was crying yesterday. a week later, i am at school and he calls me from his house after school. he asks me if im ok, i recall that i was not in the best of moods after the little breakdown, and i said i would call him later. well, that night we talked for quite a while about stuff i barely remember, but it started a string of nightly phone calls that we still engage in. he became my best friend in addition to a guy i was interested in. then it just got complicated. i found out that he knew about my feelings and that he returned them, in addition to a few other girls. but that is typical. now i have come to realize that he is different in some ways from other guys, but when it comes to stuff like girls, he has a lot in common with other guys. im not interested in him the same way anymore, and it took him getting a girlfriend for me to realize that. but he is my bestest best friend. and i learned a lot from this whole thing with him. and i will always appreciate that very deeply.

Answer 10

you will appreciate the fact that when you truly have a true love you wont lose it because it will be true to it's name TRUE !
nothing false about that information.