why am i loosing them now?.. i don't know what have i done wrong..my highschool friends are trying to move away from me..I understand, it might be because we didnt get to study in the same university...or work at the same place and with that distance, things can changed.. They stopped inviting me to parties, well i know they are those rich people, and im not...does that means i will have to loose them?...I love all my friends.. I called one of my friend today to wish her Happy birthday.. she didnt invite me out for her party, but she invited my cousin (we are of the same age).. she didnt even ask me "How are you"...I'm really sad.. i started realising that, money and status really matters.. even for keeping friends...what should i do to get them back...? :'(
2006-06-23 04:05:46 · 11 answers · asked by swap 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
They have really started hanging out with the rich ones.. cause those people makes them looks even better... :(
2006-06-23 04:08:47 · update #1
thn they dont deserve your true friendship.
friendship can never involve status or affluency...i mean true frndship...
so if they are thnking bout all thse things then u better dont thnk of such idiot dumbo so cald friends...
2006-06-23 04:30:08 · answer #1 · answered by just yrs! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes as we get older people grow apart and social status and money can sometimes do it. But the big thing is- if they treat you like this or don't want you at their parties- Then they really are not your friends. Forget them and move on... you don't need people like that in your life anyways. You need real friends, and don't worry you'll find and meet new friends! Sometimes it hard to let people go but the sooner you do it the better off you'll be.
2006-06-23 11:10:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you are a very sweet person with a big heart and that your passionate. Gemini maybe? hehe...
As far as what can you do to get them back, thats hard when it is not something you did wrong. It kinda sounds like they were not really true friends to you. No money and status does not matter to someone true to you. Especially friends. If that is why they have been they way they are being to you, then they are not true friends and you should stick with your friends that are, and find more that will be true friends to you. You deserve your inner circle of people close to you to be true to you! Sounds like you are true to those you feel close to!
2006-06-23 11:13:07 · answer #3 · answered by Fantasy Kel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i m srry but u have had a wrong decision n u r feeling sad 4 wrong frnds. they r nt frnds. frnds never give importance 2 money n status. i said na it is a relationship b/w 2 hearts without any factor effecting their relationship. let them hang out with the 1 they want 2. u be a loyal frnd. wish whn a b'day comes or be normal. but dont expect anything in return. just obey n cherish ur frndship loyally. whn life ll ever curse them atleast they ll have ur shoulder. let time mend all its faults n w8 4 tht perfect day whn ur frnds ll understand ur importance. it is well n fine tht u hang out with new frnds. if ur old frnds were really ur frnds they ll sum time turn over in life n if they dont they were nt ur frnd
2006-06-23 11:48:51 · answer #4 · answered by princess is here 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't worry i hv also faced da same problem i also dont like it but i guess they r not worth ur love n friendship.
money can buy them love. they look cool but they will become no one after some time.
u r a very sweet don't worry for them n try moving on with life make new friendz n new groupz.
i am always here for u as a friend !!
so smile n be happy!
tk
2006-06-23 11:16:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if they are that petty and stupid and dont like you just cuz your not "rich" then you deserve different friends, and they deserve to go to hell. most of the american population is not "rich", so they should get used to it. personally, i live in the New Mexico version of the ghetto, and i get invited to the country club on the other side of town by friends all the time. basically, what im saying is that they shouldnt judge you by your money, but by your character and your personality.
2006-06-23 11:10:53 · answer #6 · answered by Marines 4 Life 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As people grow up they change, in 5 to 10 years from now your friend now wont matter anyway. you will have new ones
2006-06-23 11:12:59 · answer #7 · answered by bobby h 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't worry they might be ur friends but it there lost not ur lost and if it's about money then they won't be getting lots of friends that's stupid well i think u need to move on b-cuz they r not good friends at least not good enough 4 u u'll find better friend later
2006-06-23 11:46:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about them and find yourself some new, and true friends who love you as much as you love them and more..don't worry about those who only befriend rich people...they aren't good friends to begin with....Good luck
2006-06-23 11:09:36 · answer #9 · answered by xqueenyx 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because we r so much close 2 them
we understand each others
2006-06-28 14:11:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋