Or marry a man of treats you right but doesn't have a boatload of money???
2006-06-23 03:56:18 · 19 answers · asked by mrhappy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Heck no!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I'd rather live in a shack with someone who treats me great and who I love very much than live in a mansion, shop whenever I want and be treated like crap.
Money isn't everything, it only helps. Personality and love and a big heart goes way further than money.
2006-06-23 04:00:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
No. When I get married, I want to marry a guy who treats me right and loves me and I am happy with. I would rather live in a dirty old shack in the middle of nowhere with a guy I love then live in a gigantic mansion with a man that I have no feelings for. Just ask yourself. What would you rather have: wealth or love? If he doesn't treat you right, why put yourself through that? Why put yourself through a bad marriage? The decision is up to you. If I were you, I would'nt marry a guy that doesn't love me, and I don't love. Eventuallly, you'd both realize that you're not right for eachother, and it'll end in divorce. I hope this advice helped a bit. Good luck with this, and I hope you make the right choice. <3
2006-06-23 04:09:00 · answer #2 · answered by Kay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would only marry a man that treats me right. Money doesn't solve problems of love. I think a person always deserves respect.
2006-06-23 04:09:08 · answer #3 · answered by oddbutterfly1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutly not!! I marry for love not money. If the man I love was dirt poor and lived in a shack I would marry him in a heart beat. It is not about money for me but the emotional bonding and mutual love and respect. If my husband were to lose everything I would never leave him. I HAVE lived in a shack when we first started out!! My husband, my companion, my best friend, is the most important person in my world. I love and am committed to my children, and will always be there for them, but they will grow and leave (they already have) but my husband is here with me for the duration. Where he goes, I go. If he is finacially poor, then so am I, but we are rich in love and other wonderful aspects of a good solid and loving relationship which money can not buy. We are happy, content, have deep mutual respect and honor each other every single day. We both put our all, 100% into our marriage and place the others needs above our own. By doing so we each meet the others needs, which gets our own needs met equally. We are partners, friends, and value one another. Money can not provide any of those things in life. I would never, in a million zillion years trade what I have with my husband for someone who is rich finacially but poor emotionally and has a bankrupted soul. Forget about it!! Remember that Eagles song about the young woman who married for money and how unhappy she was "Lying Eyes". It is the truth about marrying for money and not love and mutual honor and respect.
2006-06-23 04:07:03 · answer #4 · answered by Serenity 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Preferably a guy with $$$ and loving and kind. A guy who treats you right can and might change in time too. So I wouldn't marry a totally poor guy who is nice. I don't want to suffer with him and find that one day he has changed and dumped me. It's even worse and not worth it at all.
2006-06-23 05:27:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marry with a decent man who will treats spouse well and take care her with all his heart. Money can be earned as long he is not lazy to find for incomes.
2006-06-23 04:06:44 · answer #6 · answered by Adorable Mrs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
$$$ isn't all that important to me. BUT if a guy is insecure/unstable/can't afford to take me out on a date/doesn't have a place/car/etc... I won't date him.
But its all personal preference. A girl might make lots of money and not want a guy with money.. or because she makes lots of money expect the guy to do the same. Rich or poor if a guy treats me like an asshole he has no chance.
2006-06-23 04:00:21 · answer #7 · answered by HE'S NOT INTO ME 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I married a man in the military (while I was still in). Obviously we don't have much money, we live paycheck to paycheck, we're on WIC, but I couldn't be happier. We love one another and everything else will work out. We have faith that God will help to take care of us and our two children. When you have true love, you don't need money.
2006-06-23 05:07:35 · answer #8 · answered by proud_usmc_wife04 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would rather marry a man that's poor and could treat me right then marry an a@#$!&*.
2006-06-23 05:37:37 · answer #9 · answered by Beth 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I met my sweetheart when we both were newly divorced. Him paying child support and me not getting any, we were dirt poor. if we went out for dinner we went to the hospital for a cheap cheap dinner. I felt like I was in a four star restaurant. now 6 years later we can afford some of the nicer things in life. I'm so glad I didn't let his lack of moo la sway my feelings towards him. It would of been a real mistake since he is the nicest guy I have ever met.
2006-06-23 04:51:47 · answer #10 · answered by Heidi C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marry a wonderful loving man and earn money together.
2006-06-23 04:50:45 · answer #11 · answered by Rosie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋