i would like to know why do some men play mind games with a woman?

Answer 1

Mind Games! My ex-husband, was a "master-mind-game-Player"!!! He use to cheat on me, and when I would begin to confront him, he would make up stuff about me, so that I would get angry defending myself, so much, that it would end up a full-blown arguement... However, it took me years, to figure, this out , but, what he was really doing, by putting me in the arguement, was takeing attention off of hisself, so that he wouldn't have to defend himself for never being there, or so he wouldn't have to take resposibilities, for his acitons, which, finally led to devorce, once I found what he was really about. If your guy does things like that, pay attention to where, the arguement first started at, then see, how it ended. And, if it was anything like mine, then, he's a "cheater" too. Be careful,, because, some of those cheaters are like "masters" at getting away with it, and never leaving any proof, or evidence around what so ever, because, he had it good with me, he could do whatever he wanted, but if I so much as went shopping, it was all about whos number, you pick-up, so much, that I got to the point to where I wouldn't even shop anymore, to avoid, conflict. It was like I was living in prison, at home! That's when I had to get out!!! And I feel much, much, better for my decision!!! And I'm still single to this day, and he's still trying to get back with me, that will never happen. And I told him I could see why he'd want to get back with me, he had it going on. Whereas, it was all One Big Nightmare, for me!!! Just try to read into the arguements, honey. Men, are always, up to something, they cant help it !!! Their feelings, just like their penus, are external, our just like our, "Coochie's" are internal, so we care inside, they are very on the "Serface" about women, and life!! There's still a chosen few good men out there, somewhere, I'm sure, I just haven't found him yet!!!

Answer 2

The same reason women play mind games. Manipulation. Whether for sex, money, power, favors or amusement, people use mind games to manipulate others. The more open and honest a person is, the less they play mind games. Children start out trying to get what they want by fake crying, exaggerating how hurt they are, making "sad eyes" at their parents. The more successful they are, the further they carry that practice in life. The more they get caught and called on it, the less they practice it. Some people never grow out of it (politicians).

Answer 3

We have an international committee that tracks our progress in infuriating women & making them hate us. There's an intricate scoring system. A leaderboard is kept in secret somewhere in Italy.

Examples of scoring:

Failed mind game against a woman = -5pts
Mildly successful mind game = 2pts
Making a woman complain to her friends about our mind game = 5pts
Making a woman post a question about our mind games on Y!Answers = 50pts

At the end of the year, there is a huge celebration for the winner & much beer is consumed. FYI - The ratio of strippers to men is about 2 to 1. Much fun is had by all.

Don't tell the guys I let you know about this though.

Answer 4

I'm a female and I hate mind games. BUT I don't think it's just men. I've seen games between people and a lot of times it is the woman starting that stuff.

Answer 5

The real reason is...OK. Men use mind game because theres different things you can do with them. These mind games give different reactions to the human brain. Depending of what subject you are in, you grow and u feel different things. Men use these to their advantage, For example, when a guy is playing games with you, like flirting with another girl, he's really just trying to get your attention and trying to show you that he is wanted by other women, which this makes women desire those kind of men, the men that they cant have! Sounds familiar huh...? But of course mind games can be used for other different reasons, like to create jealousy, anger, confusion, different things like that. Its just many things that get u feeling in different ways. Some are good, and some are bad, really bad. But how will you know? Belive me, you will depending on your situation of course. Hope this helps!

Answer 6

I honestly think they think it is fun to mess with a female mind. But I was taught at a very early age believe nothing of what you hear and half of what you see. I have start putting that into practice with the males I meet and It works for me anyway. I have never really like the mind games people like to play. But you know that their are a lot of females that do the same thing out here to.

Answer 7

You ask that as if women never play mind games with men.

As a man, let me tell you that I've seen a lot of mind games played and most of them seem to be played by women. Seriously.

I think a better question might be: "Why do people play mind games on other people?". _Both_ genders play these games.

Answer 8

It is all a game.

You just so happen to be a woman and think it is men playing mind games with you b/c that is your only perspective. I am sure you have done the same or atleast other men have thought that about you. I admit, I myself have done the same things that I have b!tched about from other women.

Answer 9

I don't think anyone play mind-games simply to f*ck with people's emotions. When guys and girls play "mind games" its because of their own issues/insecurities/problems. I know I'm very detached when I date and have a tendency to run away or avoid calls, avoid getting close or showing any feelings of care, etc- I'm not doing it to play games- I do it because I'm scared and I have a personal issue.
I think thats the same way with some guys.

Answer 10

Because it is too easy for you girls to be played. Then, on top of all of that, you don't want to go for the nice guy that would never play you, he apparently isn't cute enough or too big or something. To me, you deserve it, girls don't learn how to choose the right guy until they are over 25 - sometimes they don't learn to ever make the right decision. You bring it on yourselves, I know an infinite number of ******* with a girlfriend or a few girlfriends, I have more single friends that I would have my sister date if she lived closer than I know what to do with. Guess what, they will stay single because you STILL will choose the ******. It's good for you, without it you will never learn.

Answer 11

cause people all sometimes get that way. women are way more commen to do this, but some men do. and ussually, its the more feminine men.... like me, lol. but, men ussually play them when they are getting back at you for something (if they are bad mind games that is) or frustrated or something like that. if its not because of that, its because they are just being stupid..... and, possibly because they dont really care about you and find it fun..... but, i would prolly need more details to acctually answer this question with something that would be useful.....

for the record, en can play mind games.... like, not all men are simple nd stuff. and some women dont play mind games al that much if at all.... but, generally speaking, women play the mind games, men are fairly simple...... unless your like me. im like, a little bit of both at times......