2006-06-23 03:04:34 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Beauty & Style ➔ Other - Beauty & Style
Well, First you have to let him know your into him......
Flirt with him....... Ask him to go out sometime.......I think that men like it when gals are more up front and confident.
Always make sure you look good around him.....Men Don't dig slobes.....
2006-06-23 03:12:04 · answer #1 · answered by Steviemarie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well...how you feel is just half the equation. How he feels is just as important.
Your question would indicate that he doesn't share your feelings.
That leaves you with two choices:
1. You deal with your broken heart, let it heal and move on.
or
2. You continue to obsess about him, continue to suffer and try to push him into liking you, and in the process push him even farther away.
The truth is that you can't force someone else's feelings. They either have it or don't. I know how much it can hurt, but trust me, you will get over it and him. There are millions of young men out there and you will soon find someone who can return your feelings.
And..a funny thing sometimes happens when you back off and move on - the guy realizes he's losing you and begs to come back! This doesn't happen every time, but happens alot!
If you make yourself too available, you are too needy and clingy and that's a big turn off! So back away and forget about him. If he does want to come back, you'll be better able to decide if you really want a guy back that hurt you so badly in the first place.
There's a GREAT book out that is really worth reading, even if you don't like to read. It's called "He's Just not that Into You." A lot of women make really dumb choices with men and work too hard on guys that really aren't that interested. If you can learn to spot when a guy is or isn't into you, you can protect your heart AND find true love.
It never pays to waste your time on someone who doesn't share your feelings.
2006-06-23 03:13:13 · answer #2 · answered by Lori A 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋