2006-06-23 02:55:53 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
well, you have to get hurt in order to get stronger and wiser.
you give all your love to someone, not knowing what that person will do with it, so it is actually a risk you take, but it is a risk worth taking, coz it is better to love, be loved and get hurt than to never be loved.
But rest assured, you can give all your love to God, He will appreciate and Cherish it forever, so that is an investment worth making....
2006-06-23 03:04:39 · answer #1 · answered by cominatsha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The problem is not love, its our understanding of love.
We use the word love way to loose in the English language. such as: we love french fries, love the beach, love days off or love our partner. What do we really mean when we say this.
Perhaps we should consider the word love when it pertains to a partner an action verb. Meaning love is a not a feeling but love is a decision. To truly love someone is to decide you will love them without a requirement. Now yes this can become complicated but as a rule for relationships and in-particularly marriage, you must decide that you will love your partner because if you just go on feelings "love" will always let you down.
2006-06-23 03:15:55 · answer #2 · answered by Paul B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people just go about love their own ways. Many people think that love is just something they can come up with and make things up as they go along. But that's not what love is all about. Love is dialog, a connection, two-sided, it's shared most of all. Each and every human being has been given an ample supply of love for each of us to share with each other. So for any of us to just give away our love is one of many foolish things we can do in our lives. Love is very precious and valuable. Some people mock love when they intigrate it with sex, money, and whatever selfish item you can think of. When love is mixed in with greed and selfishness, it spoils or goes bad. In the process of spoiled love the person's heart which contains good promises and dreams are shattered because when you've totally given someone your heart, you've taken that huge risk in turning your hopes and dreams into your partner's responsibility. All these things happen for uncountable reasons. In my opinion there's more excuses than reasons. I will say this though, be careful to whom you "share" your heart with. Don't ever give your whole heart to anyone, because you're gonna have a hard time recovering the portion of your heart that you need to maintain. Besides, your whole heart doesn't belong to anyone on earth anyways. Like I've said, your heart contains your wishes, dreams and promises. Those are yours to keep. No one has any business taking that from you. Now, somone may "share" a big portion of your heart but nobody on earth should ever take your whole heart. No amount of earthly love is worthy of that.
2006-06-23 03:30:58 · answer #3 · answered by musician2004@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Almost everything you do in life is a risk.....Love is the same way...we are taking a risk when we love but if you don't take it..you might lose out in that wonderful feeling and finding that special person.
2006-06-23 03:07:27 · answer #4 · answered by Sandy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the person whom we love hurts us the most. it was a reality we have to accept. as the saying goes its better to love and get hurt than to never love at all.
2006-06-23 03:07:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on with your life, dear. There's always a light at the end of the tunnel. Trust me on this one. And, no, we don't ALWAYS end up getting hurt. Relax and count your blessings and, most of all, DO NOT bitter your soul with such looser thoughts! "Sometimes you win, sometimes you loose"...Such is life!
2006-06-23 03:10:05 · answer #6 · answered by tomera04 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
human nature to fnid a life partner. But I've given up on love. I just want to have fun for now.
2006-06-23 02:59:22 · answer #7 · answered by from me to you 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its our nature, but do remeber that in life it takes hardships to in your life for you to truely enjoy the good times. Thus sometimes, and for some people heart break leads them one step closer to true love.
2006-06-23 03:04:09 · answer #8 · answered by bugsharmony 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Loving someone is not always easy, it has its ups and downs. But when you love someone and they Love you back...That's a piece of heaven sent from God.
2006-06-23 03:15:37 · answer #9 · answered by teenewme1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its always so... love is for the pleasure of getting hurt. U need to prepare to get hurt.
2006-06-23 03:09:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋