If a guy has a girl at home who is less than the pretty girl he sees everyday walking down the street that all the guys are gauking at, then would he remain faithful to her in every way if that girl were to put the moves on him? Would guys prefere to have a girl that can where tight hip huggers, and tight tank tops? Or the size 11 girl at home, With less then perfect skin. What runs through a mans head when they see girls like that walking down the street?
2006-06-23 02:26:48 · 30 answers · asked by angela 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
A guy will stay home if she keeps him happy.Looks are only part of that
2006-06-23 03:29:17 · answer #1 · answered by polockpete40 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Seeing a pretty girl walking down the street is a natural thing for a guy, or a girl to look at. Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder. If the guy really loves the girl, nothing will step in the way of the one he truly loves. Size does not matter, skin does not matter, clothes do not matter; it is what is in the heart, that matters. Any girl should not sell themselves short, because, there is someone for everyone. Good Luck!
2006-06-23 02:34:18 · answer #2 · answered by icemountian8 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh honey, I wish there was an answer for this. But, love is not based on looks, lust is. We all know that a man has a huge lust factor. Most of those drop dead gorgeous girls out there have a hard time getting men to go out with them because the man is intimidated by her beauty. Love is based on feelings and emotions. Besides, I think a size 11 is making a come back. The more you worry about your man lusting after a beauty, the more insecure you will become. Stand strong and be confident and your man wont go anywhere.
I hope this helps!
2006-06-23 02:40:24 · answer #3 · answered by christy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What goes through a man's head when he sees a girl walking down the street? Well, a man looks at her body and face. If the body and face are attractive to him (he sizes this up in seconds) he's thinking one of the following two things: 1. How can I get in her panties?; or 2. I wish I were in her panties. Now if she is ugly on the other hand, or has a poor body, he makes a joke about it and looks for the next girl. We are ALL Shallow Hal's, I'm afraid.
2006-06-23 02:31:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am guessing, and forgive me if I am wrong, that you are the size 11 girl with less than perfect skin? Let me tell you that you will have better luck holding onto your man if you can let go of these insecurities you have about your body and your appearance. I know it is hard, but you need to concentrate on improving your self esteem. If losing 10 pounds and clearing up that acne will help, then get to it! However, do it for yourself, not to please someone else. Once you feel better about you, you will worry less about other women. It will improve your whole outlook on life, trust me. Start an exercise program. Go see a dermatologist (I can give you my skin care regimen if it would help you / it is all over-the counter cleansers and such). Good luck, and remember, if you are happy with you, then he will be, too! It's all about attitude!
2006-06-23 02:55:42 · answer #5 · answered by Okkieneko 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most guys would find the situation tempting, but many would find it relatively easy to resist. If he already has a good relationship and has made a commitment to it, any guy who can be trusted would have no trouble resisting.
Looks make big first impressions (and that can be hard to get past,) but in the long run, most guys want to be with someone who is generally compatible and fun to be around, even if she's not supermodel material.
Ultimately, a guy is more likely to be faithful to a girl who makes him happy, no matter how pretty she is. (Of course, there are always shallow losers who are exceptions to the rule!)
2006-06-23 02:39:06 · answer #6 · answered by M Huegerich 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have found this to be true all my life. Men respond to the person. Yes, initially, I think that looks do attract, but then all my life, boys and then men responded to me. First, I was a stick figure, then somewhat over big in breast area (birthcontrol) at one point a good 10-12 lbs overweight, and very self conscious about it. Should not have been. Any man I have ever cared about ,weight , looks, hairdo, clothes, style, choice of make up, flavor of perfume, smoking etc. it did not matter to him
except his concerns for health purposes. (smoking) It is looks that may attract initially but the beauty of the mind, heart and spirit that captures the heart and soul . That is what lasts and matters.
2006-06-23 02:57:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hank Williams Jr. has a song that says it all about men it's called "Woman I've never had" he sings " I like to have women I've never had " and i think that's true with most of the men in the world and if a man has a woman at home it's probably because he has picked the one he wants, there for has no reason to cheat some do but most don't. Besides men like Eddie Murphy says in his show "RAW" men try to find and conjure as much pu$$y as they can, sad as it is it's true.
2006-06-23 02:55:22 · answer #8 · answered by apache672004 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, what's under the clothes. Not going to lie, men are born horn dogs, and you should know this. But as far as the faithful thing, that is all on him. I have a very good looking girl, and I have seen girls that are better looking, but not all the times looks are why guys hook up with a girl. I don't give a hoot, what other men tell you, but attitude is a major player, but yes looks too.
2006-06-23 02:31:59 · answer #9 · answered by BrandonH 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As sad as it is, most guys will go for the size 0 chic, i've learned this from my own experience. But if you are lucky to find one special man that doesn't care what size you are, he will be happy to have someone that is faithful and loving to him. There are a few like that apparently. They are in hiding or something who knows.
2006-06-23 02:34:15 · answer #10 · answered by just me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The girls with the tight clothes are the type of girls that men like to look at, but not have a relationship with. And if he is happy in his relationship, it doesn't matter how big the girl at home is.
2006-06-23 02:34:00 · answer #11 · answered by bostonchick 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋