I'm happily engaged and soon to be married and know I am with the love of my life....but, I have developed a major crush on a guy I see every morning at Starbucks. He always says hello and has a great smile. I'm dying to ask his name, to start a conversation, anything to find out more about him! I don't even think I want more than just to know more about him, it could be perfectly innocent but because he is a guy and I'm a girl who is engaged to someone else, it seems taboo.
2006-06-23 02:19:51 · 7 answers · asked by sweetietw 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
while your are engaged...your relationship with the Starbucks guy is a non event...find a new Starbucks or break off your engagement. There are lots of strangers who have a great smile and are friendly and people want to get to know them but that is not as involved as having a "major crush".
2006-06-23 05:57:58 · answer #1 · answered by Library Eyes 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
allow's say you split including your fiance, attempt to start up some thing with this guy for actual, and he rejects you. Will you nonetheless imagine it became truly well worth the attempt? If definite, then end stringing your adverse fiance alongside and do it already. If no longer, then that is time to end letting a delusion wreak havoc including your actual existence: because if that is not any longer truly well worth the prospect of shattering your illusions that your weigh down is the proper guy for even the prospect to be with him in a genuine relationship - fights, uninteresting stretches, weird and wonderful secret habit, and all - then a delusion is all that is. As for even if you need to proceed with the marriage plans at the same time as you're engaged on that...it really is harder to say. on the least, i imagine you pick to verify your impulse administration is less than, properly, administration previously you tie the knot: that is not any longer that you won't be able to face up to temptation, that is in simple terms that you do not pick to, and that is not any longer a good trait to convey into your marriage.
2016-11-15 04:02:27 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either your being completely ridiculous or you need to break off your engagement. A third possibility is having your wedding vow say, "Until Death or until the guy at Starbucks wants to hook-up" - and see if that goes over well.
2006-06-23 02:27:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is just a crush and it is ok to have a crush on someone as long as you don't take it too far. Leave him alone because you are engaged
2006-06-23 02:24:00 · answer #4 · answered by confused 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
See,miss..?????, i know its not easy 2 control sch feeling, but still i STRONGLY suggest u 2 don' allow urslf to get flown.Its just a passing by infatuation.What if u happen 2 hv a crush after marriage?Tell me?
2006-06-23 03:21:56 · answer #5 · answered by talk 2 me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you have a major crush on him, then you should reconsider things with your fiance. or maybe you think its a crush and but perhaps something else..
2006-06-23 02:23:29 · answer #6 · answered by nellie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not too late yet, check if he is equally interested. If you dont do it than you will repent all your life.
2006-06-23 02:26:23 · answer #7 · answered by abcdeghi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋