i told my gf i slept with 13 girls,...and she got upset,..?

Question

just being honest,..isn't this reasonable?? (ps i'm in late 20's)

she asked...

Answer 1

Sometimes "the number" can be a dangerous conversation. And it is never fun to go first. I hope you're gf is honest in her disclosure and you can work past it. Might want to assure her that she's the only one for you now - assuming that's the truth.

Answer 2

If she asked you the question then she wanted to know. If you just offered the answers, then don't ever do that. Be honest with her if she asked. I hate it when people say to lie about things that will cause problems later in the relationship. It is hard to remember what you said and if you make the mistake later and tell her again but it is the wrong number, then there is another fight.

Basically, don't offer the answers if its not asked. If she asks you, then she is in the wrong to be mad for the answer. Hey, by the time I was 20, I had slept with over 20 guys. Now I am married and have been for 13 years. As long as you were careful, than it is what you wanted to do and it doesn't matter the number.

Answer 3

Your girlfriend asked you how many women you slept with and she got mad? Being that I am a female, if I asked my boyfriend that question, I wouldn't be mad because I asked the question. You were being honest and that is reasonable. You didn't tell her to hurt her. You told her because you felt that you are in a stage in your relationship that you could tell her these things. Besides, you are with her and nobody else. You love your girlfriend. Tell her that. Remind her of the reason why you are with her. That is what's important. At least you were not sleeping with 200 women. Then, I could understand why she would be upset. I hope that things work out for you.

Answer 4

Some girls ask the question but they don't really want to know the answer. Most guy's know this and bring the number down just to make them feel better. It's good you wanted to be honest, it's a great quality to have. Just think about it for awhile, how would you feel about your girl if she turned around and said to you she'd been with 13 or more guys? Girls like to feel like there the only one ever even when they know it's not likely to be true.....we're funny that way

Answer 5

I think honesty is the best policy- Always!
13 is a reasonable number for your late 20s. If she is "the one" she will get over it. It can be hard picturing the one you love with other people...

Answer 6

OH MY GOD YOU ARE HONEST THEN STRAIGHT AWAY WALK TO YOUR DAD AND SAY THIS TO HIM ? CAN YOU DO IT? NO.
DO NOT SPOIL YOURSELVES AND OTHERS TOO.PLEASE CORRECT YOURSELVES.
YOU ARE IN LATE 20'S MEANS WHAT A LONG WAY TO GO FOR YOU IN LIFE.
DO NOT THINK THAT YOU ARE OVER SMART BY INCREASING THE NUMBERS.
YOU MAY GET TRAPPED. EVERY TIME GOD WILL NOT SAVE YOU. MIND IT.
WHEN YOUR GIRL FRIEND HEARD YOUR STORY HAS SHE NIT SLAPPED AT YOUR FACE AND WALKED AWAY,IF NOT SHE IS ALSO A FOOL AS THE 14 TH NUMBER.

Answer 7

You should never ever tell your #, never. Like it or not everybody is going to judge you one way or the other. If you told her 2 she might have thought something, you tell her 13 she gets mad. Its the same with guys. Ive learned to never tell my #. She'll get over it.

Answer 8

Girls with morals looking for a serious relationship don't want to hear high numbers, specially if they're reached double digits

Answer 9

You made her feeling insecure. She may be wondering who's next.
If she doesn't get upset, she must be imagining that she's the last girl with you.

Answer 10

she shouldn't be upset but never tell females how much people you've been with not all females think alike but you need to ask her why she get upset she ask so she should be able to handle the answer