hi , i defintely feel guilty . Long ago i was attracted & had feelings for my bro in law ... yes that suckx but it was due to loneliness and high negligence from husband...today im a satisfied mother and still seek some attention from husband . Hes a great guy ...but workoholic kinds.
I have been at logger heads with my brother in law( husbands younger brother) for the last 2 years ... but suddenly this old flame has erupted . one night i was v sick and he aided me ..gave medicines and made warm b/fast . Since then we both feel a new sense of closeness ... i feel ..and i feel drawn to him again i feel horrible but helpless ...suddenly we both are behaving like old time .. oh and he gets married this year ... so what is all this
2006-06-23 01:42:49 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
r u serious get over it. he is not the 1 4 u. you need to enjoy and spice up your own relationship,find ways to make it better. get over the bro in law. if you not into your realtionship dont make excuses and use others as a way out. wake up to reality and move on if you need to - if you got the guts!
2006-06-23 01:48:27 · answer #1 · answered by Susie Y 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your husband is a hard worker and is trying to provide for his family. Give him credit. Meanwhile your brother-in-law is manipulating..he knows you still have feelings for him...and you should be stand offish around him....especially if he is getting married....he is a player and your marriage could be ruined if you allow this to continue...Look you are in control here, its ultimately up to you...but you better THINK before you act. You could lose everything!! Is it worth it? NOPE
If you are a christian and believe in the Bible....read it...in regards to adultery....it will guide you if you have a conscience. Hope you figure it out.
2006-06-23 08:56:27 · answer #2 · answered by Pammie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GOD ALONE SHOULD HELP YOU.FOR SUCH NONSENSES YOU GET PUNISHED BY GOD.
ONCE YOU ARE MARRIED YOUR BROTHER IN LAW IS A BROTHER TO YOU. IF YOUR HUSBAND BEHAVES WITH YOUR SISTER RATHER SISTER IN LAW THE SITUATION CHANGES. WHAT MADAM YOU ARE PRETENDING TO BE SEEMINGLY INNOCENT AND DOING A GRAVE MISTAKE. PAST TS PAST AT LEAST TRY TO CORRECT YOURSELVES BEFORE SITUATION BECOMES WORST.
IF YOU BOTH WERE CAUGHT RED HANDED BY YOUR HUSBAND HAVE YOU THOUGHT OF THE AFTERMATH.
BR WISE AND PRAY GOD TO GIVE YOU THE SENSE.
2006-06-23 08:51:55 · answer #3 · answered by gkakkasseri 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its natural in families. have the pleasure. for get and forgive is the best policy.
2006-06-23 08:47:54 · answer #4 · answered by prince47 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My first thought is that you are not someone I would want to know.
2006-06-23 08:50:22 · answer #5 · answered by Austin L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to back off!!! you're gonna ruin YOUR marriage and his relationship with his woman. i can't even believe you're contemplating this, don't be selfish!
2006-06-23 08:47:43 · answer #6 · answered by Curious One 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋