she tells me its bcos i've been displeasing myself to please her and other things she can't talk about,but i really love her,
what should i do to keep the relationship from not collapsing,its just 6 months old
2006-06-23 01:07:44 · 21 answers · asked by Tige I 1 in Arts & Humanities ➔ Other - Arts & Humanities
It's time to let her go but don't be a jerk about it. If she can't talk that means communications are down and that's very bad for a relationship. Once you let her go, never ever ever take her back. Let her know that and then say good-bye. I agree with someone who said always stand by your principles but I don't think guys have to be jerks and treat women like crap. No one wants to be treated like crap for any reason. And being a nice guy should not equate weakness. Women who see a nice guy as weak doesn't know a good thing when she sees it. Sooner or later women always want nice guys.
Good luck.
2006-06-23 01:31:16 · answer #1 · answered by easywintoo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
friend if u really love her then just try to express u r self let her know that u love her a lot & could die for her
if this thing gets in her mind i can bet u she"ll never leave u just try to remain calm sometimes we guys just rush upon things & finally every thing mess-up dont do n y thing in hurry think before what u do
try to find out her weakness
well try this thing say something to her (means n y thing that u like her eyes or clothes or n y thing & just try to get her reaction if she laughs or make funny faces then u got her nerve but if she feel uneasy or bad then just get away with the topic sraight away by saying that"i m just joking" or sorry friend that was just a joke i wont do it again
best of luck
& also tell me what happen
bye
2006-06-23 08:20:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
"other things she can't talk about"? that shows that there is obviously something she is not sharing with you. i don't want to put ideas in your head or anything. i've been in this situation before. it sucks. tell her you would like to talk about all this and try to get it out of her the best you can. drill her softly, no pun intended. and i hate to say it but 6 months isn't all that long. yeah i felt that way when me and my girlfriend were at that point but one way or another it will work out. dont fret about it if you can help it. itll cause a lot of stress for you that you don't need, nor does anybody in this situation. Good Luck man. hope it turns out ok
2006-06-30 09:26:50 · answer #3 · answered by jskinnydjh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It takes two people to make a relationship work. If one is unhappy, the posibility of collapsing is very high. You CANNOT do anything to stop her from breaking up with you. If she makes the decision to break up with you and is the wrong one, she'll realize it sooner or later. If she doesn't, oh well. Move on.
2006-06-23 08:12:52 · answer #4 · answered by Private Account 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude... if this is the girl for you, you'll find out sometime in the future. I went though this crap too. 1 of 2 things will happen.
1. She really wants to get out.... (SO LET HER)
2. She doesn't know what she wants... (SO GIVE HER TIME)
Do NOT think you can do anything to save it. You are powerless, except you can still be her friend to make the decision easier on her.
2006-06-23 08:13:29 · answer #5 · answered by p3jedi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She says: Oh It's not that I don't love you, It's that you've sacrificed so much, I don't want you to have to do that for me.
Translation: Hey, I met someone else who I like more than you, and I don't know how else to tell you I don't like you anymore
Take it for what it is, The end! Realize that love is an emotion that is clouded by many factors, and what you think is love now, you may not feel the same tomorrow.
2006-06-23 08:17:17 · answer #6 · answered by Corpse3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she's dead set on breaking up, there's not a whole lot you can do. Living well, appearing happy ,is the best revenge. If she breaks up with you, take someone else out as soon as possible, and make sure she knows it. Maybe not the most mature thing to do, but , damn, it'll feel good!
2006-06-23 08:13:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should break up with her. It is over. She's saying all that displeasing stuff for an excuse, she wants out. If you stay, you'll both be unhappy.
2006-06-23 08:11:48 · answer #8 · answered by ukmagilla1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you are being too nice, and girls never respect that. In my experience I found that you should never compromise and always be yourself, no matter how much they hate it. They will respect you for it and in the newfound respect you will find yourself with the upper hand. It is not foolproof, but it works for me. You are a man, act like one. Girls love unreliable guys who treat them like crap. So get in touch with your inner jerk.
2006-06-23 08:16:45 · answer #9 · answered by El Capo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is trying to let you down easy. Let her go with grace and class. Try to stay friends. Maybe someday she will come back.
2006-06-23 08:11:40 · answer #10 · answered by AlphaFemale 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋