2006-06-23 00:38:21 · 20 answers · asked by koko k 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Ask for a promotion..
2006-06-23 00:40:21 · answer #1 · answered by DL 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
What is going on in your life to make you consider having to look for trouble? Is your boss a guy or girl? I guess that would not matter! You are asking for so much hurt, you need to work on your marriage and why you want to keep this other relationship going. Seems, I recall causing great pain in my family at one time, It is not worth the time, effort, or how you will have feelings of shame, this person does not need your problems nor do you need theirs. Are there children involved? This could mess their lives. Do not just think of yourself. What reasons did you marry? If you are not happy, ( who said marriage is easy or that you should be in love with another). Get out of the marriage if necessary, and leave the other person alone, You do not know what you will be getting into, but it seems to me should you have an affair, it is not about love, more like infatuation, bordem, low self esteem. Good Luck with your decision.
2006-06-23 07:56:48 · answer #2 · answered by my4dogs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a friend who is in the same situation. Its hard to be a friend to her because of this. Her husband just found out through her emails about her affair. The man she is having an affair with is her supervisor and is also married. Well the husband is very distraught..he loves his wife with all his heart for the past 20 yrs. The man she is having the affair with keeps promising he will leave his wife...but he never does.
This has been going on for 5 months....the man she is having the affair with...well during this time his wife has lost alot of weight.....he is now beginning to give his wife more attention than my friend.....but her husband still suffers with a broken heart. She will not leave her husband until she knows that the other man has left his wife. Her husband will not throw her out. I told her if I were him she would been out the door the moment I found out.
What I am trying to say is that things may appear one way now....but once you get started in this you may be left holding the empty bag....you will lose your husband who truly loves you, you may lose the boss....Is all the heart ache worth nothing in the end.....
Please take the energy you are using and place it in your marriage where it belongs....your marriage will blossom if you put your heart into it.
I suggest you put in for a job transfer.....
Think about everything before you act on it!!! Best wishes to you.
2006-06-23 08:11:26 · answer #3 · answered by Pammie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not in love with your boss, its just infantuation. Get your life together and spend it loving your partner because if your boss is married and you falling in love with him (her), same is going to happen to you if you end up with your boss, he(she) is definatly not going to stay faithful. Just think of how hard you have come in your marriage and put more work into it to spice it up. all the best.
2006-06-23 07:42:43 · answer #4 · answered by ron 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
fall out of love with the boss b4 u get in 2 deep and regret what u have let yourself in 4 , u are playing avery risky game and alot of innocent people will get hurt including your children if u have any
2006-06-23 07:43:58 · answer #5 · answered by lizella 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are smart, you will find another job, or transfer to another department. Forget your boss, hard as it may be. Divorce just ruins the lives of everyone involved.
2006-06-23 07:42:48 · answer #6 · answered by gramawriter 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get divorce and never get marry again. Be free, love whoever you want. I think freedom is better for you. Some people happy with one person in their lifetime, some not.
2006-06-23 07:44:42 · answer #7 · answered by Türkiye 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a new job -- FAST!
Get yourself into marriage counseling -- FASTER!
Keep your hands off a married man -- ALWAYS!
Concentrate on your own marriage or get a divorce.
2006-06-23 07:41:07 · answer #8 · answered by kja63 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is easy to fall in love with someone whom we meet and work with everyday but the truth is it will never have a good end....................you know the right thing to do (do not get involve with your boss) and please treat your self and your husband with more love and respect.
2006-06-23 07:44:03 · answer #9 · answered by Firefly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop and think about what you're asking. Are you mentally impaired, need medication? We often want what we dont think we can have. I'd advise you to get another job. People get shot over messing with someone's husband..............
2006-06-23 08:51:52 · answer #10 · answered by Kit Kat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
quickly write a resignation letter and leave it on the table.. run as fast as u can to ur home and look at ur handsome husband with love.. (if he's not there look at his photo or somethin..
thats what i would do if i were u.. but its ur life. right? so do what u wanna do.. good luck :)
2006-06-23 07:52:05 · answer #11 · answered by Hammad 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋