I have recently found an email my husband wrote to an unidentified "Russian" woman. He states in this email that he too dreams of meeting her. I am assuming that there was an email from her telling him that. He had told me about the emil from different ladies from Russia. He told me about the email he wrote to her. He DID NOT tell me that he told her that. I don't agree with the fact that he is emailing other women. I have asked him to stop. He says it is just a joke. (the emails to this other woman)
We have recently moved to a new home. He tells me everyday that he loves me. Do I believe him? I am so upset over this, I don't know what to do. Will someone please help me.............
2006-06-23 00:17:13 · 13 answers · asked by snovak49849 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I want you to know that this would bother me tremendously if my husband was corresponding with another woman this way. If he values the trust in the marriage he should stop. If he truly loves you he will not violate the trust and will stop. Telling someone you love them and showing them are two separate things. What he is doing is very disprespectful. He needs to respect the fact that it upsets you.I wish you the best.
2006-06-23 01:54:51 · answer #1 · answered by 10 pts for me? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your husband is heading for big problems. This activity is not uncommon. These "women" will say many things to a man to get a response. Then it's "I want to come see you but don't have any plane ticket money" This is most likely a scam. I've seen it for myself. They are persistent and you have watch for the warning signs. It can also be an immigration scam as well as a money scam too.
Don't treat your husband like a cheater. Treat him like a 5 year old with a credit card. Go to web sites. Just search "Internet scams" on Yahoo! you'll find all of them there. Even your husbands Russian girl friend.
2006-06-23 10:09:13 · answer #2 · answered by vmmhg 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello.,
because of unidentified women why you want to suspect your
loved husband see russia is not next to your citi so pls don't worry about all those email let's sit with hus and talk to him what made him to write email to women who lives far way from him he may be surfing net for long time so don;t keep it in your mind and enjoy you good and happy time with your husband if he repeat pls inform me and let we will find some other method to
keep him away from russia woemn
2006-06-23 07:31:42 · answer #3 · answered by waterhousedistributors 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, I think he should stop doing this, no matter how much he loves you, having this kind of stuffs going is not a married man would do unless you both know this woman.
Maybe the woman don't even know if he is married, so you can't blame the woman..
2006-06-23 10:41:48 · answer #4 · answered by Ny 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is a hard one... well i have a family member who has a problem like that... she got onto myspace and to find her hubby on there already.....(he had an account she did not know about) he had lots oh terrible things on there.. like he was not married, writing other female, telling them he was gonna be w/ her, so on..... well just be careful.... i'm sure he does love u but he is hiding things from u.... u sould not have been the one to confront him... he sould have told u from the get go.......... sry u r going through this.. i hope everything wrokes out..
if u don't have my space yet, go search and it may sirsprise u that ur guy most likely already has an account..... i was shocked when i seen ppics of my guy on there. never told me had had an account but it was good nothing bad. that would have upsetted me....
good luck to u
2006-06-23 07:31:50 · answer #5 · answered by Mickey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him calmly that it's important for you that he stops.
Besides, 'just a joke' is the most stupid excuse I've ever heard. If his talking to Russians like this (or to anyone anyhow) is supposed to be a joke, than isn't talking to you - too? Is such a joker worth being with?
Nevertheless sending my empathy
2006-06-23 07:26:32 · answer #6 · answered by Iguana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time for some tough love. Kick his a** out and see if the joke is so funny. For one, saying things like that to any woman isn't 'funny'. He's telling you that to cover his own butt.
2006-06-23 07:41:20 · answer #7 · answered by bluez 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
men are strange creatures...i'm sure he loves you, but maybe he's just looking for a little excitement. when was the last time you tried something fun and new sexually? you might want to come up with something creative for the bedroom to keep him on his toes and wanting more, so he won't feel the need to search for adventure through foreign ladies. hope i was of some help!
2006-06-23 07:26:20 · answer #8 · answered by opera_floozy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It´s not ok what your man is doing. He tells you every day that he loves you and then he is chatting with other women? Something is wrong. If my man would do that I would break the computer. Do you know his password? Change them all. And then you go ahead and chat with other men.
2006-06-23 07:31:25 · answer #9 · answered by Carmen G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Regain ur confidence and trust him...If he tells U he loves U he means it, i'm sure...
2006-06-23 07:30:30 · answer #10 · answered by benird 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋