I recently found out that several of my "Mates" tried it on with my girlfirend while we were together. Now we have split up and they are going for it even more! Surely this is social faux pas numuro uno?
What should I say to them when I see them or should I just blow them off and not waste my time.
Note: when they see me they act like we are best buddies still!!!
2006-06-22 23:58:47 · 26 answers · asked by mrhaff 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
well, you know what they say, never let a girl get between you and your m,ates, from my point of view, they dont seem much like mates to me, simply confront them, if they really care about and they are really your friend, then they will tell you the truth and hopefully apologise, but for some reason i cant see blokes doin that, all you can do is ask them, and remeber, that girl is an ex, and you are not still with her, is this really worth all the hassle, simplt talk to tem, and hopefully you can work it out with them.
2006-06-23 00:02:52 · answer #1 · answered by glittershelly 3 · 3⤊ 3⤋
Devise a genuisly evil masterplan involving a dark cave, jam & hungry killer antz. Yes your mates are tossers. And your girl - should have told you as soon as! But - now you'll be better prepared for the next time someone tries 2 screw u over - learn the lesson - do the evil masterplan revenge thing - then move on - you deserve better.
2006-06-23 00:28:00 · answer #2 · answered by WhyWhyWhy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I always have a rule never go with a mates partner while or after they are 2gether. It seems to be a good rule cause each one of my mates live by it.
If your mates are really your mates they wouldn't do that, no matter how gorgeous she is.
If i was you id tell them where to stick their friendship because you obviously deserve better than them.
2006-06-23 00:12:18 · answer #3 · answered by English Rose 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whatever went on when you were together, you arn't with this girl any more
She is your ex and if she wants to see one of your friends then that's her business now not yours. If you don't consider them good friends then this shouldn't be a problem. She is your ex so your opinion of her can't be that great either. If I were you I would just find some other people to hang out with and not waste your time.
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2006-06-23 02:36:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its an un written rule that you dont make a play for a mates ex they can be good mates think you need to find some new ones, if any of my mates did that i would lamp them big time if they asked if it was ok to make a play then fine but to do it behind your back and while you were with her is just 2 faced
2006-06-23 00:02:48 · answer #5 · answered by >darkangel< 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh nasty. I have to say though whenever I broke up with a boyfriend some of his mates hit on me. I think its just a boy thing. The ex's seemed to flattered by this??
2006-06-23 00:24:50 · answer #6 · answered by zara c 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're not seeing her anymore, forget about it. But be aware of this happening next time! Don't sound like very good mates though.
2006-06-23 00:02:55 · answer #7 · answered by K38 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Atleast you can see they're tossers. You don't need mates like that, they shouldn't be trying to get with your ex, would you do it to them? If not just don't bother with them anymore.
2006-06-23 01:04:15 · answer #8 · answered by babyjayney 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what great "mates" you have... *says in sarcastic voice*
what you should really do is say to your now ex if she was intrested in any of your "mates" before she went out with you (or during your relationship) - don't give up or give in to your "mates" tell them that you want to know why they were after your ex!
2006-06-23 00:06:21 · answer #9 · answered by ilovesuburbanlegends 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a break from that group of wasters...
They have no respect for you as a "mate"... Find some people who will treat you with more respect...
2006-06-23 00:05:08 · answer #10 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋