Okay see my mom was about to get married when brian ( her groom to be) came forward about a week b4 the wedding and told my mom he had another girl pregnant!!! and i feel really bad because my dad and i don't really talk and i really looked up to him!!!! and i loved him i called him dad and he'd been apart of my life since i was 4 now 14 i tried calling him the other day and the other girl answered the phone so i just hung up and started crying is it wrong that i still wanna be in touch even through he hurt my mom sooo bad i mean they were together for 11 years!!
2006-06-22 23:55:47 · 11 answers · asked by Linz 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
HE'S NOT MY DAD READ CAREFULLY!!
2006-06-23 02:20:13 · update #1
I hate that you have to go through that. What a jerk. It sounds like he has moved on and unfortunately you will probably have to let him go.
2006-06-22 23:58:48 · answer #1 · answered by krisaquarius 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi there Linz, it's natural to feel bad at this point in time but i'll tell u one thing there is absolutely nothing wrong with u trying to maintain communication with your dad. After all He is your and nothing can change that. As for your mother, i know she is in so much pain now but your dad's deeds definately don't mean he doesn't luv u or his luv 4 u has diminished. Don't worry things will get better, your mother will b over this somehow. U HAVE A RIGHT TO B IN TOUCH WITH U'RE DAD
2006-06-23 00:21:36 · answer #2 · answered by solly 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im so sorry for what happened. That is really messed up for what he did to your mom. Is he not gonna be a man and get married and take things seriously? He is running around with another girl tho he has been with your mom for 11 years. i would kill him for what he did If i were you...not literally kill him, but i would be really mad. I am so sorry. That is such a horrible thing to happen to you and your mom...I feel for you hun. I would cry to.
2006-06-23 00:01:52 · answer #3 · answered by ♥mcmanda♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am so sorry to hear this.its not wrong as he is ur father.u r related to him by blood so its obvious.so dear go on that way which makes u feel gud.if u wanna talk to ur dad then go ahead.call me and make the gap between u both narrower.relation btw u amd ur mom were different as u have with ur father.everyone is not same with everyone.may b if u go upto him he may heal ur mom's probs also...so all the best!
2006-06-23 00:05:59 · answer #4 · answered by aora 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No i don't think that it is wrong to still want to be close to him i mean people just make misstakes you just have to learn no matter how hard it is to forgive one another. I am really sorry though I hope oyu and your mom make it through this..I will pray for you.
2006-06-23 00:01:30 · answer #5 · answered by NINJA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this man has no dignity, dump him and make him feel bad that he waited this long to tell your mom. A REAL MAN breaks off his current relationship to be with someone else before anything happens. I'm sorry but i'm just trying to give it to you straight.
2006-06-22 23:58:44 · answer #6 · answered by Rigga 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm sorry you have to go through this....he has moved on and unfortunately you have to move on too....he was a JERK IN THE END...so face it and be you be glad about it later.....it will pass.. good luck to you and your mother
2006-06-22 23:57:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
U really feel bad for him? get rid of him quick or can someone who can.
2006-06-23 00:00:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
WAS REALY YOUR DAD BECAUSE IF HE WAS I GUESS IT IS ALRIGHT BUT IF HE WASN'T AND HE WAS LIKE ONE KEEP IN TOUCH BECAUSE U DON'T FIND GOOD FRIENDS AROUND THE CORNER.
2006-06-23 00:10:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
f-get ab out wat he did wid ur mom
if he was ever nice 2 u
and has never hurt u then there is no problem in u talking 2 him.........
take care of ur mom sweetie
she reely needs u...................
2006-06-23 00:00:03 · answer #10 · answered by vasudha roy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋