My wife is continuing(after I told her to stop), is continuing to look at porn, and watching lesbians having sex. I told her to stop because I don't look at stuff like that,.it makes me think I'm not satisfying her. She said he wouldn't do it anymore and I just found a porn site on our address bar. What should I do?
2006-06-22 23:43:43 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
cmon now we just saw the same question posed by the wife about her husband,WAKE UP PEOPLE
2006-06-22 23:53:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 3⤋
The first thing you should do is loosen up, be more open minded.....maybe suggest finding a bi woman to join you for a one time thing in the bedroom. Stop letting your insecurities get in the way. I love seeing naked women, would love to have a bi experience with one, but I'd never leave my husband.
So if your treating her good, you have a good sex life, then open up. Maybe you should be thankful its just porn and not sex with others behind your back!!! If you take a fantasy or fetish she has away from her she may become unhappy and leave you.
Be supportive, if porn isn't for you thats fine....but if she likes it, let her be!!!!
2006-06-22 23:55:45 · answer #2 · answered by StephNLee2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let her do what she wants . if you prevent her she will start hating u . u dont like it, do u? you should not prevemt her but if her habit realy tease u try other ways. first of all you should find the root of the prob . if she just love pornography or simply is a little bit lesbian . or if you cannot satisfy her . this are complitly different . first know it and then try to solve it . but always remember that Preventing and Ordering and ... just destroy love va marriage. If I were u i would exam diffrent styles of sex , or start watching those movies whit here . also giving her more sex , i mean more times in a week . also you can use delay condomes or things that work like that . hope it work
2006-06-22 23:53:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take the computer out of the house. Then sit down and talk to her. Tell her porn is unacceptable to you and you don't want it in your marriage. That you love her very much, but she needs to decide which is more important to her. If its the porn, maybe you need to divorce and find someone that feels the same way you do. Or maybe just keeping the computer out of the house would help. Whatever you do, don't just keep ignoring it. It'll tear you apart.
2006-06-22 23:53:09 · answer #4 · answered by Velken 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe your wife may be trying to tell you something. Try and sit down with her and talk about her addiction and why after you have asked her not to - she continues to view porn/lesbians.
Maybe she is intrigued with the idea. Maybe it is a fantasy of hers, and she wishes to explore that fantasy. Maybe she is bored with your marriage?
2006-06-23 00:27:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's wrong with you boy? If she is having and enjoying sex with you, why should you worry about what she is watching. It's a free universe pal, why you should tell her to stop watching something that she enjoys; if you don't look at stuff like that, it's your problem. Grow up man; looks like you're intimidated.
2006-06-22 23:53:05 · answer #6 · answered by Sangita Sethi nee Malhotra 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
buy some loveportion for u. Have more sex to satisfy your wife. Then everything is done.
2006-06-22 23:48:55 · answer #7 · answered by Chinarose 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is that seriously a problem for you? Most guys would love it, and would look at the stuff with her. Obviously it turns her on. Doesn't matter where she gets her appetite, as long as she eats at home.
You're mom_of_twins28 aren't you??
2006-06-22 23:48:04 · answer #8 · answered by smurfette_au2000 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
R U Gay?????? Let her look at the porn, you should watch some also. Maybe it will loosen you up.
2006-06-23 00:32:24 · answer #9 · answered by Shocker3:16 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wouldn't it be nicer to 'ask' her to stop instead of 'telling' her to? Or watch it with her and have a good time together.
2006-06-22 23:52:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, just have sex with your wife.
2006-06-22 23:46:04 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋