2006-06-22 22:21:32 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
def. move on. You'll have more fun, the kids can see what dad's doing, you don't need to explain to them. Get a divorce and get all you can. Then do something for yourself.
2006-06-22 22:47:32 · answer #1 · answered by vickie32091 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You should have been moved on, I would not wait around for a year, even with kids involved. But just make sure he pays his part of the kids, and a little extra if you can get it for him being such a prick!!!!!!!
If you haven't already got your divorce I would ask for half plus.... and whatever you do, don't sleep with him, no matter what. that way you are not sending any mixed messages, he don't have a bargining chip, and you don't feel bad about yourself the next day. Good luck and chin up, men are just like buses, as soon as one takes off another one is on his way!!!!!!
2006-06-22 22:27:45 · answer #2 · answered by simplyfabulous 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do move on.
For your sake and the sake of your children.
It must be really hard for you, but you can do it without any problem.
Talk to your kids also, they must not be having a good time either. At this moment you need a good relationship with them.
Good luck dear! I wish you all the best.
2006-06-22 22:28:02 · answer #3 · answered by Mrs. Codrock 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on my friend.Seat your kids down explain the situation to them and hope to God that they understand.You dont need someone like him.And one last advice,dont ever think less of yourself.Your kids needs you to be strong for them and yourself.You deserve much more,believe me and there is someone out there who can give you that.
2006-06-22 22:42:35 · answer #4 · answered by Shosh-B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u think u should be waiting for such a guy who is sleep with a lady who is 18 years younger than him
come on that guy seems sick and believe me he will never change
so its better go on
and try to get nice guy for ur self
2006-06-22 22:34:15 · answer #5 · answered by snake 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, and then laugh when the flavor of the minute he has decides he is to old, and she moves on too.
2006-06-23 02:36:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what r u waiting for? of course u should. he's not gonna come back. why should u not enjoy life? it's stupid that u waited for a year.go ahead and enjoy! make ur kids feel good too.
2006-06-22 22:25:28 · answer #7 · answered by The Mediator 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is a slimy, discusting loser. And he broke his promises that he made when he married you. Keep away from that jerk....... and move on. What goes around comes around, hopefully.......and I hope he gets all the things he deserves........and YOU deserve a good man !!
2006-06-22 22:25:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
live life as it comes ,but dont give life abig space for things to happeeen on their own and thinking about the person who never thought about children too.
2006-06-22 22:30:28 · answer #9 · answered by neelu s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he sounds like a slimeball. yeah, move on....let him drown in his mid life crisis when that baby robs him for all his money and leaves him an old lonely man.
2006-06-22 23:25:37 · answer #10 · answered by origchick 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋