Sex is a great thing. You know it. I know it. We all know it. So why don't we have more of it? I'm not sure I understand why it takes so much effort and emotional exchange to take place before having a sexual experience with another human being. What's the big deal. Okay, disease is your concern. So why not put more effort into prevention and finding cures for them? That's solved. So now.. what stops everyone from just having sex for fun. I don't get it. Besides the fact of say family relations.. that would be gross. But strangers should be with out question, perfect game for just going at it with each other. They should set up centers for people to meet and have sex for free with each other. Is it women who stop this from occurring? Is it the attachment and bonding of the emotion love? What is it? Why can't we relieve our tension with sex the same way we would with a nice massage by a stranger? Were the 60's the only time to do this? What happened to the passion?
2006-06-22 21:57:07 · 11 answers · asked by ohmygodhaveyouseenmynicknamehere 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
Forget it.. You're all just boring! No sense of imagination. Overpopulation.. use protection. Duh.
2006-06-22 23:01:38 · update #1
Dangerous? I already covered this point.
2006-06-22 23:02:06 · update #2
Sure.. loyal high sex drive women. they're evveerrrrywhere ha! ehh... live a little.. all you do is judge others, hold back and say no you can't do that. no that's not possible.
2006-06-22 23:07:20 · update #3
Finally! an answer with some thought. Thank you.
2006-06-22 23:09:06 · update #4
Well, you put alot of thought into your question. The 60's ended December 31, 1969. Unless you've got a time machine, the 60's can't help you. Most VD could be cured by antbiotics. AIDS changed all that. So, yes the 60's (and most of the 70's and some of the 80's and when you think about it the 90's too and then there was last week....) was the only time to do this. And the last time I checked, massages did not spead disease.
And you don't sound like someone who's actually HAD a disease or you wouldn't have glossed over it so easily. You also sound like someone who hasn't had a bad experience with one night stands. The rejection that occurs from getting attached to someone who wants nothing further to do with you can be devastating. Add to that the poossiblity that your pick-up could be a killer psycho, and sex with strangers loses some of its appeal.
Hey, women want good sex just as much as men, but let's face it, most men are pretty easy to please. All a woman has to do is show up and men are happy. Men need a few times to "get it right" and so need to offer something more than just sex. Witty conversation and manners, for example. If a woman is bolting out of bed after sex, then something's wrong.
And society encourages promiscuity, so no blame there either. Even have a song about it.
Why limit yourself to strangers exclusively, though? I find that most intruiging. It seems you only find strangers appealing. You could get much more sex in a monogamous situation, so I wonder why that route wasn't even considered in your question. No diseases, no brutal murders, and mutual satsfaction.....and passion.
I understand the appeal of the one night stand; the mystery, the unpredictability, the variety. But in the cold hard light of day, you know they're just not someone you'd like to hang with. And once again comes the lonliness, the emptiness and the boredom.
Let's face it...sex with strangers is common, the status quo...it's love that's rare these days.
2006-06-22 23:03:37 · answer #1 · answered by mithril 6 · 4⤊ 1⤋
Ask your daughter or your mother.Prostitutes are available aren't they? Centres? Whose going to pay for the lease. The free sex seekers? If it is sex you are looking for then get a compatible partner and do it till you are drained. You are not rating sex but sex with the multiples you cant attract, with strangers or maybe loyal high sex drive women.
2006-06-22 22:26:28 · answer #2 · answered by mcqila 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have a lot of growning up to do. Sex is not just just "a fun thing" and it IS a big deal to most people. Do your Mommy and Daddy know you are posting to this site?
2006-06-22 22:03:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's the point of going thru the motion without the emotion. If we start this then we are no better than ANIMALS
2006-06-22 22:06:11 · answer #4 · answered by sonisunny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am with you 100%. I don't get it either. It is a shame that women are treated poorly for sleeping around when they are just doing what we men want them to do.
2006-06-30 07:58:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand what you mean...**** thats how i found my fiance.....I met him when i was drunk...the second i saw him....ohh...i was flirting...i was kissing...like an hour later...we did our thing and been doing it ever since. it was fun to just go at it with eachother like animal...the more hot and intense moment i've had! I blame him sexy eyes...and sexy ***...and ohh, everything. hahahah. Now thinking of it...i might have to just go home and rip his clothes off. haha.
2006-06-30 05:52:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Join a commune!
2006-06-22 22:00:32 · answer #7 · answered by Susan G 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well to start with having sex with family members is very sicking in my opion as for what you posted in my opion you lack something called[morals]. in my opion ?
2006-06-22 22:05:33 · answer #8 · answered by the_silverfoxx 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because it's dangerous.
2006-06-22 22:00:54 · answer #9 · answered by cyanne2ak 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You dummy, why do you think we are overpopulated.
2006-06-22 22:00:16 · answer #10 · answered by tczubernat 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋