I feel for the most part that if your spouse has trust issues that the real reason for their trust issue is because they have had thoughts of doing something wrong , so they feel like the other must have as well. Not in all cases mind you some are because they have been given reason to not trust. Its the ones that have not been given reason that I am talking about. Agree or dissagree and why?
2006-06-22 21:45:49 · 12 answers · asked by status quo 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I think the reason for their trust issue, is that they have had some events in childhood. Maybe some person whom should have been there for them were distrustful or something. What people with trust issues need is caring and understanding. Assurance that you are trustworthy. Not the opposite.
This isn't even hard to try out.
2006-06-22 21:48:40 · answer #1 · answered by Tones 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It would depend.
If the spouse was by nature naturally suspicious and distrustful, then that wouldn't be an accurate measure of their "guilt" at all. But if a person was normally open and trusting and suddenly became very distrustful I'd either think they were cheating or possibly having nervous breakdown!
2006-06-22 21:50:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that often those with trust issues are those who have been badly burned on the past
that doesnt mean they are seeking 'revenge' by screwing someone else over like they have been done themselves - it just means they are trying to protect themselves from being hurt again in a new situation
trust can be rebuilt in a persons life - but it takes time and patience and a lot of it.
2006-06-22 22:05:24 · answer #3 · answered by Aslan 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't trust anyone, but I have never once screwed someone over. My reasons for not trusting are my own, but mainly it is because I got sick of letting people take advantage of me.
2006-06-22 21:48:30 · answer #4 · answered by Gregie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't agree and disagree but I have my point....
Men couldn't trust women is common as they couldn't trust theirselves so how could you expect him to trust others. Secondly, men cheat alot so they are worried their wife will cheat too.....Basically men have no confidence in themselves so that loses the trust.
2006-06-22 21:52:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree, I think you have to trust yourself before you can trust anyone else!
2006-06-22 23:12:53 · answer #6 · answered by Jessie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that depends. if they dont trust anyone or they dont trust people by their looks than no but if they dont trust people for something that person did bad to them than yes.
2006-06-22 21:50:24 · answer #7 · answered by Penelope 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i feel those people who dont trust others should be trusted n trusted more.....coz dey r very practical n not fool......knowin da fact that they don trust others dey don ask others 2 trust dem...n remember mos dem r really very honest !
2006-06-22 21:58:21 · answer #8 · answered by jas 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no... because they know them self and that is why they don't trust no one....
2006-06-22 21:51:55 · answer #9 · answered by yellow_tulip28 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No.It takes one to know one.
2006-06-22 22:08:38 · answer #10 · answered by Professor Riddle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋