Wife and her parents are characterless. They are not cultured in repect, where character is concerned. They don't bother that their girl was engaged in sex with other men before her marriage. How to treat her parents.
2006-06-22 21:40:51 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
avoid them and do not talk with them. and if possible go to new place where they cannot interfere in your new life
2006-06-24 18:45:28 · answer #1 · answered by NEW 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, I am afraid parents could not control their daughter having sex with men before their marriage as parents couldn't be sticking with their daughter 24 hrs a day. Whatever done before her marriage cannot be considered as characterless because she had sex with her man at that time and expecting to end up in a marriage but unfortunately it doesn't turn up as what she wanted and went on to the next and the next relationship till she married you.
So if you think and felt you could not get over or accept her past then divorce.....why so miserable trying to hate someone else......and be unhappy with your life.
2006-06-22 21:47:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not discuss their daughter's sex life with your inlaws. That is now between you and your wife. If she has not cleaned up her act and cheats on you, I think the best thing to do is leave her.
If she has cleanen up her act but you are having difficulty dealing with her past, then you need to seek professional counseling.
If her parents disrespect you on other issues, stay away from them and make sure your wife knows why so she can relate it to them.
If you can not learn to trust her, you can never have a happy fulfilling marriage. You will suffer and the worse thing is that your children will suffer and they are totally blameless.
Good luck.
2006-06-22 21:55:24 · answer #3 · answered by lcmcpa 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a hard look at the fool that married a woman soooo "characterless". I would treat them with utmost respect because they obviously suffer fools with elegance.
2006-06-22 21:43:33 · answer #4 · answered by quantumrocket 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what are you getting at? How come you are married to this characterless person? Give her a break. Either you love what you've got or you leave.
2006-06-22 21:43:25 · answer #5 · answered by Tones 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
having married the girl for whatever reasons you can not escape your responsibility. treat them with respect .show them what is character by setting an example. slowly but surely you will be the winner at the end. have patience and confidence in self. have trust in god.
2006-06-22 21:48:14 · answer #6 · answered by rjbendre 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i could propose which you break up out of your spouse in the previous you smash everyone's lives!! Do I come across a splash of 'marrying for the sake of having a clean nationality' right here?? YOU married her - you are the only with defective judgement! you won't have the ability to have each thing in existence you comprehend!
2017-01-02 05:52:01 · answer #7 · answered by inzano 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So why does it matter to you? Is she your wife? Your sister? Your cousin? If she's your wife then you married her for who she is including what she did in her past. And to say that they are uncultured (where character is concerned)... what does that mean? I mean how perfect are you anyway?
2006-06-22 21:44:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
D way u sound like ur marriage was a business transaction. HAhaa. that this couple upsell their DAUGHTER to u, claiming she is a virgin, which is why u felt like being coned..RITE?
2006-06-22 21:58:27 · answer #9 · answered by HappYGal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah....that whole thing needs some clarification before we can answer.
2006-06-22 21:42:59 · answer #10 · answered by Gregie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋