i had a girlfriend for 1 year and 5 months but we broke up from a small fight that just got big. i didnt talked to her for 4 days and on the 5th day i called her only to find out she has a new boy already. the new bf liked her since the start of the school year. i still love her very much and i said im sorry for all the stupid things that i said. the thing is we still see each other and sometimes we still have lil bit of sex. the new bf knows that we still see each other bcuz my ex told him but he doesnt know that we still do it. i really dont need sex, i just want her love back. please help me with my situation and what to do to go back with my ex. i said that im sorry and i will change for the better but it seems like my words mean little to her. yur loving a women who cant love you back. it truly hurts plz help. theyve been together for only 2 and half weeks
2006-06-22 21:39:42 · 10 answers · asked by ShadowX3 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
if we go back together, she wont go bangin other guys, i know her very much shes not like that.. they only kiss and cuddle but no sex or even touchin. and everytime i talk about we going back, she gets mad and say she's being presured. i cant help it i need to know.. it hurts deep inside
2006-06-22 22:15:50 · update #1
Love sometimes hurts. This is one of those times. You must either break up with her or insist that she break up with him. This type of situation can lead to devastating results. What if he finds out you are having sex with her and goes crazy?
It sounds like your total breakup is only a matter of time. That being the case, the sooner the better. The longer you are involved, the more hurt you will feel and the deeper the pain will be. If she cheats on him, she will cheat on you.
If you get back together, learn to be more considerate. Better to bite your tongue off than to say things just to be hurtful. Write your feeling down. Read them back to yourself two days later. Then you might want to edit what you wrote or even destroy it.
I'm sure you know a lot of other girls. Wait a while to heal and get to know some of them better. You will be so much better off.
Good luck.
2006-06-22 22:07:51 · answer #1 · answered by lcmcpa 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
From a current bf, within a span of 5 days, u suddenly become d third party. How much love it prove she has for u. NONE..U juz confused and obessed that u lost her just like tt.
Take a break, she found someone new.
perhap she oni love making out w u. Nothing else.
2006-06-22 22:07:17 · answer #2 · answered by HappYGal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gee, do you two ever give each other a break ?
Sounds like neither one of you is in love with each other..you said sometimes you still have a little bit O'sex.. and then you said you don't care if you still do it. Obviously your'e geting together to do it and there is no love involved..just good sex.
2006-06-22 21:48:25 · answer #3 · answered by MoMoney 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look at this situation and tell me if you really want this kind of woman (more like, girl, since you mention "school year") in your life.
She has a bf but she's still seeing and having sex with you.
If she did it to him, she'll do it to you. Count your lucky stars and move on. Best of luck to you!! :)
2006-06-22 21:45:26 · answer #4 · answered by UniqueIsWhoSheIs 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so...try your best to get her back than you have to sorry in whole your life!!! ensure her that you love her very much and will change your bad attitude. Do anything as you can.
Good luck!!!
If she still want to see you, means that she still have same feeling in you.
2006-06-22 21:48:15 · answer #5 · answered by Fie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
beware that if she is happy to cheat on the new bf by doing it with u she wont think twice of cheatin on u if u get bck 2gether
2006-06-22 22:08:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
loosen up! he probly isnt adequate for you besides allow him bypass locate someone more effective positive anddd get revenge if uve considered john tucker ought to die ! tryy performing it coool like ur over it bee satisfied round him and chat to different adult males hes on the point of believe me he will be in hell !
2016-11-15 03:55:37 · answer #7 · answered by gorgone 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to be more could with her ... show her what she can louse if she will not come back to u!
and don't have sex anymore! meet and talk!
2006-06-22 21:47:31 · answer #8 · answered by yellow_tulip28 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just live with the mistake...n never repeat it!
2006-06-22 21:49:10 · answer #9 · answered by Ynot78 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No......if god's sake with you.....you will get back her......otherwise.....you have to pay for the mistakes done.......
2006-06-22 21:44:27 · answer #10 · answered by sri_pondy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋